Yeah, but if there was undisputable evidence that your granddaughter was dead, and you had suspicions right from the start anyhow... wouldn't you want your granddaughter's remains to bury/cremate??? How can you let her little body rot/be eaten by alligators??? How can you mourn her if she never comes back??? In Cindy's fairytale world does she really believe the kidnappers will bring her back? If so they would have demanded ransom, which didn't happen in this case. There was no ransom note, no nothing from the kidnappers. Caylee wasn't sold off, when there is DNA evidence that her dying/dead little body was in the trunk of Casey's car, which reeked of decomposition-not rotting pizza, dead squirrels, trash, or any other such nonsense. The real ZF-G didn't need any more children, she already had 6 of her own, and I think a couple of grandchildren...
Of course it doesnt make sense, but in her denial /fantasy it doesnt have to make sense. She's not thinking about the alligators or that tiny body decomposing wherever she was dumped....i just dont think she will let her mind go there, not even for a second. In so many interviews she seems like she is not only trying to convince the public, but herself too.
I have seen her appear broken and times and very defensive at others. But dont forget that when people are feeling completely powerless, they switch to agression in an attempt to feel some degree of control.
Add to everything that CA must be feeling some degree of guilt...'if only I had've asked more questions about the babysitter, if only I had've arranged the childcare mysef, or if only we didnt have that big argument on fathers day, then maybe I would still have my Caylee'.....
It drives me crazy thinking that if KC would just fess up this would all be over.
I know my opinion is different from many other posters, and i appreciate we all have differing opinions. Thats why I love WB so much- its not one-sided.
I also think George is appeasing CA because he is scared to death that he will lose his wife , after already losing a g.daughter and so much more.
He's living in reality. He knows they will find the body eventually, but again would rather that not happen because it would kill CA emotionally or literally.
He may think that its too late to help Caylee now, but he'll be damned if he lets another family member die.....they could have their own memorial for themselves when the time is right. So to him, helping TES would only hurt his family more.
I always try to put myself in another persons shoes. Its easy to pass judgement when you have no direct connection, but until you actually live it, you just dont know.....JMO