to no stone unturned:
I recently had a friendship of 12 years end. At this time I was working for her. She had gotten involved in doing some things she shouldn't have been doing and could have lost her reputation and business. I talked to her, told her I wasn't going to let her do that to herself. I tried to help and protect her. She ended up in the hospital and I while talking to her crying mother, I did suggest in generalities what my concern for her was to her mother. Again out of concern literally for her life. She ended up firing and badmouthing me for it and accusing me of things I didn't do. Said I had betrayed her.
My point is, I read AH's interview and what she said happened with CA's call and the ride, etc. I don't feel like she betrayed KC. I think at that time CA was being quite concerned and sincere and it was obvious that KC had been lying. They hadn't even been friends but a few months. If I had been in AH's position, I wouldn't have given KC heads up either - I would have wanted to know the truth and if she had been warned she would have taken off.
There's so much more to friendship than constant blind loyalty - at least with true friendship.
I recently had a friendship of 12 years end. At this time I was working for her. She had gotten involved in doing some things she shouldn't have been doing and could have lost her reputation and business. I talked to her, told her I wasn't going to let her do that to herself. I tried to help and protect her. She ended up in the hospital and I while talking to her crying mother, I did suggest in generalities what my concern for her was to her mother. Again out of concern literally for her life. She ended up firing and badmouthing me for it and accusing me of things I didn't do. Said I had betrayed her.
My point is, I read AH's interview and what she said happened with CA's call and the ride, etc. I don't feel like she betrayed KC. I think at that time CA was being quite concerned and sincere and it was obvious that KC had been lying. They hadn't even been friends but a few months. If I had been in AH's position, I wouldn't have given KC heads up either - I would have wanted to know the truth and if she had been warned she would have taken off.
There's so much more to friendship than constant blind loyalty - at least with true friendship.