ScubaTwinn
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I've always liked to think that cats and dogs believe snoring is our way of purring. I'm sure I'm totally wrong, but I like to think it.
Thanks for the update, HC. I envisioned the portable pen while you were gardening and it sounds wonderful. However, I was thinking he may get afraid, being penned up and separated from you. When it comes time, another way to try it would be to put the portable pen around the area you're working on (if it's the kind of pen I'm thinking of), so you're 'in' there also. Then once he's used to it, just put them in another area while you garden nearby. He may be fine with the whole thing so it may not be necessary - but just a thought I had.
I don't know if the pen is going to be big enough for me, Gracie, and Romeo, and still allow me to get anything done. LOL. Gracie is as big as a person now; she'll stand on her hinds and put her paws on my shoulder, and we see eye to eye...I'm just a hair under 5'7". She weighs less than me though. LOL.
I'm going to try an intermediate step, though. When stretched out, the pen will cross the driveway, so I'm thinking that when I'm working on the kitchen garden, and/or working on the garage, I can put the pen up, leave the backyard gate open, and he can come and go like Gracie does. That way, he can start to see the "big world", and see that Gracie is calm and mellow, and maybe over time I can move the pen down the drive so he can see more and get more comfortable with things.
And I'm starting to use the harness on him. I'm wondering if he hasn't had some neck trauma, or something scared him...he is not happy about his collar but tolerates it as long as no one is touching it. So I'm thinking if I put the harness on, and let the leash drag behind it (while supervised, of course), he may adjust to that without previous issues coming into play.
I don't know. This one stumps me. I've dealt with horses who were scared of being led, and was able to get through to them easier than I'm making progress with Romi in this instance.
I really can't complain, though. He's come soooo very far, and he's been trying soooo very hard. We'll just keep at it, and I'll keep trying to figure out something that is a reassuring method for him. It's just a good thing he's not nearly as big as Gracie, because I do have to carry him a lot. LOL...between Gracie on a leash and Romi being lifted, I swear, I'm stronger than I've been in years. LOL.
It'll come. There will be a break-through moment, and he'll make the leap of faith. He's done it before, and I have no doubt that he's not done with his socialization and surprises and willingness to try. He's a sweet, dear boy, and is working his little heart out to overcome his previous existence.
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Just have to brag on this lil guy today. He is becoming soooo brave!
I had the floor refinisher guy come in to give me an estimate. Gracie went nuts - barking, howling...leaping. And when she leaps, she can clear my head. All she wants is lovin, and is excited to see new people in her space, and doesn't mean them any harm, but still, it's intimidating (and impressive) to watch.
I was unsure of how Romi'd take someone in our house...someone he doesn't know, and certainly doesn't trust. I figured he'd get out to the grass area, and maybe bark a bit, or even run and hide.
Nope...he stood right there with Gracie, and barked and bayed, too. I am not sure if he was upset or wanting to see this person, but I am just so pleased he was not too scared, and stood his ground, and didn't run away. Just stood there and let it be known he existed. Like I said, not sure if he was defensive or curious or neither/both, but he stood there at the door and didn't leave it.
I am so tickled. So pleased. And just so proud of this boy. He's come a long way, you know? A long, long way.
Just thought I'd share.
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Just have to brag on this lil guy today. He is becoming soooo brave!
I had the floor refinisher guy come in to give me an estimate. Gracie went nuts - barking, howling...leaping. And when she leaps, she can clear my head. All she wants is lovin, and is excited to see new people in her space, and doesn't mean them any harm, but still, it's intimidating (and impressive) to watch.
I was unsure of how Romi'd take someone in our house...someone he doesn't know, and certainly doesn't trust. I figured he'd get out to the grass area, and maybe bark a bit, or even run and hide.
Nope...he stood right there with Gracie, and barked and bayed, too. I am not sure if he was upset or wanting to see this person, but I am just so pleased he was not too scared, and stood his ground, and didn't run away. Just stood there and let it be known he existed. Like I said, not sure if he was defensive or curious or neither/both, but he stood there at the door and didn't leave it.
I am so tickled. So pleased. And just so proud of this boy. He's come a long way, you know? A long, long way.
Just thought I'd share.
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Just have to brag on this lil guy today. He is becoming soooo brave!
I had the floor refinisher guy come in to give me an estimate. Gracie went nuts - barking, howling...leaping. And when she leaps, she can clear my head. All she wants is lovin, and is excited to see new people in her space, and doesn't mean them any harm, but still, it's intimidating (and impressive) to watch.
I was unsure of how Romi'd take someone in our house...someone he doesn't know, and certainly doesn't trust. I figured he'd get out to the grass area, and maybe bark a bit, or even run and hide.
Nope...he stood right there with Gracie, and barked and bayed, too. I am not sure if he was upset or wanting to see this person, but I am just so pleased he was not too scared, and stood his ground, and didn't run away. Just stood there and let it be known he existed. Like I said, not sure if he was defensive or curious or neither/both, but he stood there at the door and didn't leave it.
I am so tickled. So pleased. And just so proud of this boy. He's come a long way, you know? A long, long way.
Just thought I'd share.
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He did really well yesterday, I'm so proud of him, I can't even tell you.
I think I've begun to understand why he has leash issues. It's not the leash, per se, and it's probably not "neck trauma" (as another dog from this batch is suffering...). I think it has a lot more to do with him being brought out of his cage by the scruff of his neck.
This morning, I accidentally pulled on his scruff (I lost my balance when sitting down for lovies...thanks, Gracie!), and he growled at me, dug his claws into the concrete, and pulled back. I kinda sat there, thinking about it. He wasn't growling at me, exactly, but he was seriously protesting being moved by his neck. Quite clearly.
I thought it was interesting, and put myself in his place. If his experience has only been human hands reaching in, grabbing him by the scruff, and then taking him places that they did medical testing on him, well no wonder he has concerns and issues about being moved by the scruff. No WONDER!
Still, I pulled on his collar, loved on him, pulled on it, loved on him, over and over for a while. He did stop growling at me, and while I didn't "move" him during this exercise, I was trying to demonstrate that "tugging" his scruff does not always equal medical testing/pain, but can in fact also equal happy times. I'm not sure he understood that, but he did stop growling.
This makes complete sense to me, you know? Now, it's just a matter of trying to recondition him. I think we can overcome this, especially now that I understand it (I think...can't be sure since he can't tell me...). He and I will be working on the reconditioning/deconditioning, and just add that to the range of things we do daily to get him used to being a dog as a pet...and not a dog as a medical supply.
And he's coming along...right now, he's chewing a bone, and really going to town on it. LOL...laying there, just going after the marrow in it, and totally enjoying himself. It's so neat to see the progress. Just so neat.
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That makes a lot of sense.
It does, doesn't it, Steely? I mean, when I think of what has happened to him, and how he must have been taken from his cage, I've got to think that this may be, if not the whole, at least part of the issues for him.
Now, I'm just hoping that things I've done with my other critters in terms of desensitizing/reconditioning will be effective with dogs. I don't have the experience with dogs that I do with horses and cats, and so am not too sure the experience translates into dog, kwim? But it's a start, I think, and gives me a direction to go in. It may be a dead end, but...well...I don't know that yet, you know?
We'll see how things go. Like I said, it's a start at least.
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