Ive gone back and forth numerous times about my feelings toward Chris and Sky Hughes; especially the insane fiasco the defense made with those emails! Ive been angry, disappointed, and Ive also felt their real friendship and loyalty toward their friend. Whatever their intentions, whether completely pure or not, in writing this book, I personally will only purchase it if it is endorsed as a whole by Travis family. Im not saying they wrote anything negative or overstepped boundaries in writing their book. But as has been discussed here before, since Travis death in 2008 there have been hearings, motions, trials, media reports, interviews, TV shows, documentaries, books, TV movies,
.all dissecting the relationship between Arias and Travis, and by doing so defining the man Travis was. Defining their brother.
There will be people who will always believe all or part of Arias story, despite any number of books written to contradict her lies, and despite any books that portray Travis realistically. And I can't help but wonder about the privacy the Alexander family MAY be longing for, to finally have this trial over and their brothers name no longer a subject of tweets, interviews, commentaries, articles, blogs, evening news recaps, even when its positive and painting the truth about their brother.
Could it be possible they just want silence for awhile? To have time, finally, to grieve their brother alone as a family. To remember him privately, carry on his traditions and legacy quietly, and have the luxury after all these years to decide when and if they want to publicly speak about him, and what they want to say, and to choose which memories to share and those memories they want to keep private.
For a family who has withstood years of torture, I have to wonder how many, if any, of them just want to quietly return to their lives, their families, friends, their jobs and do normal things that dont have to be scheduled around trial dates. I guess I would just like to see them have the choice. They have had all control taken away from them when it comes to the murder of their brother and this despicable trial. When Arias is sentenced, I hope for them to find peace and do whatever they need to do in order to move toward health and healing. Give them their privacy and the control to share what they want, when they want, if they want. MOO of course.