I could see how the way Jodi talks would influence a juror or two. When she was on the stand giving her secret testimony, I guarantee you she was using a really sweet, innocent voice that may have had some jurors wondering how someone this nice could have done something so vicious. There was a link to an article about borderline personality disorder on one of these threads that I read over the weekend. The article was saying that people with BPD usually were abused when they were young and they had feelings of abandonment even when they were young. I never have felt that Jodi was physically abused. I guess she was hit on the rear with a wooden spoon by her mother, but I'm older and don't consider that abuse. I also don't think her parents ever abandoned her. Maybe she felt abandoned when she was 17 and moved in with Bobby. Her parents didn't come after her, but I suspect they'd had as much of her sass as they could stand. I taught sixth grade for thirty years and did paddle several kids each year during the first decade ('70s) or so when I first started teaching. The kids who were paddled and the rest of the kids behaved well after that because they didn't want a paddling. Jodi and Carl knew what made their parents upset. My thought is that if they didn't want to get hit with the spoon, they should have behaved.
In that secret testimony, Jodi said her father was working all the time and seemed distant when he was at home. I was always a daddy's girl, and I guess I won't ever understand that. My mother had been married before, before World War II, and my sister had a different father. My sister married young, and I felt like an only child after that. But my daddy basically built his life around me. I went everywhere with him. We went to church practically every time something was going on. We went to the rec center at night for me to shoot basketball. Out of five years (grades 8-12), he only missed one junior varsity basketball game out of all the games in which I played. He's the person who took my friends and me to all of our high school football games. I'm bringing this in because I was spanked with a belt one time-- by my daddy. I can't even remember what I had done wrong. I do know that after the spanking, I ran and jumped on my daddy's lap, and he held me while I cried. My daddy died when I was 29, and I'm 66 now. I have lived my life in a way that I thought would make my daddy proud. I think that is what has surprised me about Jodi. How could she have sat there and said all of those things that she and Travis did, especially with her parents in the courtroom? I wonder if I would have done things differently if I hadn't had a father who cared so much for me.