mysticrose
The key to change... is to let go of fear
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I did not vote as I am not certain how things should go for this little guy. Reading Gloryrebel's post above I would have To disagree. For 8 years I have been through he!! and back over a child custody dispute. The father was always throwing things out there as you state above about myself and of course it was never true however I knew there was abuse going on there at his place and numerous times brought it up had eveluations done that showed mental instability with the father etc... The court turned a blind eye ripped my son out of the house for full summers to spend with this man. My son was afraid to come forward and say anything because he was told they would find out and that they knew everything he told his counselor. Long story short about 2 months ago the new wife filed a restraining order against him for her and her children and moved out and then that is when everything came out about the physical and emotional abuse that my son had been exposed to for 8 years along with her son's.
The court does not always know what is in the best interest of the children and if the Judge would have taken me a little more seriously and pushed a little harder to investigate my son would have not been put through this. Yeah and as well the father just sent me a request to reliquish his rights and vacate any visitation imagine that. It was never about my son it was always about getting back at me to hurt me. My son was being abused but the school never said or reported anything because there seemed to be no indication. The GAL assinged to the case did not find anything as well. I am not saying that Ron is an abuser because I do not know but abuser's do and will find ways to hide it...always
The court does not always know what is in the best interest of the children and if the Judge would have taken me a little more seriously and pushed a little harder to investigate my son would have not been put through this. Yeah and as well the father just sent me a request to reliquish his rights and vacate any visitation imagine that. It was never about my son it was always about getting back at me to hurt me. My son was being abused but the school never said or reported anything because there seemed to be no indication. The GAL assinged to the case did not find anything as well. I am not saying that Ron is an abuser because I do not know but abuser's do and will find ways to hide it...always