NotSoGrumpy
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The age difference irks me to no end. I know some say Heather is an adult....but I have a 20 year old and if she found herself in a relationship with a almost 40 year old.....I'd be livid. At HIM the most.
It's disgusting.
An older man calls the shots and she was in puppy love over a smooth talking older guy. Him being married to a very volatile woman was his doing. He put Heather in a horrible dangerous situation from the beginning that has obviously ended in a very tragic way.
I can only imagine how TE feels knowing that disgusting man had his hands on his child.
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My wife was 19 when we began dating. I am thirteen years older than she is. We had our first child together when she was twenty. We have one of the most normal, stable marriages I have ever known. She's went through a LOT when she was growing up. Alcoholic parents, living on her own from her sophomore year of high school and having her former significant other killed. Let's just say she is wize and mature beyond her years.
She currently works three jobs, is a full time student and has her priorities in order better then people three times her current age. I stay home with our daughter, work from home and homeschool our child...
Which bring me to another point. SOME homeschool families have their own untraditional schedules. If TM is a night owl, the children may be as well. If you don't have to get up for school in the morning, whybfight your natural clock to go to bed early? We know a family who literally ignore the clock for daily life. The kids wake/eat/study when they want to. They know their curriculum, what they need to complete on a daiky/weekly/long term basis and these kidsbare brilliant, well behaved and pretty stellar human beings. Our three year old tends to be a late to bed (10 ish) late to rise (9 ish) kid. She still naps and she thrives on being able to follow her natural clock.
TLDR- Not all relationships with huge age gaps are dysfunctional or inappropriate.
Homeschool families and children may have untraditional sleep and living schedules that are completely normal for themm