SC - Heather Elvis, 20, Myrtle Beach, 18 Dec 2013 - #9

[bestill]

Now I'm wondering about the reason given to LE about the last contact with HE from OM. And all the contact up to that point between the two of them and did it suddenly stop after that morning? Hence the statement "to tell her to quit contacting me". Hypothetically speaking this could be a reason the communication suddenly ended.

 

[paris_paris]

Paris Paris said in a recent post- "It's the little details that pick away at me."

Made me think that I never noticed until now. When I log on to Webslueths from my computer it shows all of the posts correctly timed.

But I take my phone to the couch the posts are showing that they are being made an hour difference. For ex. Its just about 5:38 now, but this will post showing 6:38 on my phone.

Phone is with ATT, I'm in EST. Wondering now about call logs???

On your phone, in the forum, go to User CP at the top. From there Edit Options / Date & Time Options

 

[jkloc420]

Now I'm wondering about the reason given to LE about the last contact with HE from OM. And all the contact up to that point between the two of them and did it suddenly stop after that morning? Hence the statement "to tell her to quit contacting me". Hypothetically speaking this could be a reason the communication suddenly ended.

What other reasons would you end a relationship?

 

[hockeymom4]

So, what about the coworker? I would think he should be further looked at as well based on the statement made in the report as well. Maybe he saw her on the date. It of course would all be a coincidence and not sure I believe those.

If I guy I had a relationship with said he was leaving his wife for me, I don't think I would cry in sadness. If I liked him still, which I thought she did, I would think she was happy. If I didn't like him, I wouldn't cry. Unless that wasn't the conversation and she lied to her roommate. I just don't understand crying over why he would be leaving his wife for you. If he did say stop calling me and she continued to call bc she still loved him. Maybe she made up the story bc she wanted it....at 20, I could see that, our mind says what our heart wants. Maybe they continued to go back and forth with each other on the phone and she was sad (roommate confirmed), so he agreed to meet her at their spot (Nancy Grace said it was familiar to her and it's a mile from her parents). So they meet and fight and she storms off. Either OM takes her or some other random person or this coworker randomly finds her there bc this was there spot to. OR he really did plan to leave his wife and she is waiting for him somewhere until he can meet her. OR it is unrelated to OM.

 

[Ski1987]

Most NC schools didn't start winter break until 12/19. I imagine SC is on the same schedule.

Found it. Horry County Break started 12/20/13.
http://www.horrycountyschools.net/files/_keIHA_/8ee062dcb722d7833745a49013852ec4/TradCal1314.pdf

T-Hanks!

 

[jillycat]

Do we know for sure if the date heard her or was otherwise privy to the exchange with her roommate? Or is this an assumption by media? I can see how he was in on the pic taking and texting, but are we to believe on a date where she was having a nice time with the new guy, she got embroiled in some sort of contact with a third party then called her GF in tears to discuss that?

 

[Aeronomy]

you can get details for texts though.... im almost certain! (I also have Verizon)

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Yes, if you log in to myverizon or something to that effect you can view detailed text information such as if it were a text, picture, who from and to, what time and more...just not the actual content.

 

[bestill]

What other reasons would you end a relationship?

This is a way to explain the communication suddenly ending between the two, that would need to be explained to LE. You may say, if you were being questioned "I told her to stop contacting me", so that when LE looked at the records it would explain the sudden end of communication.

No one knew she was missing until her dad reported it the next evening and if you've been communicating on a regular basis and suddenly stopped you would need a reason for that. I'm confusing myself, lol!

 

[floridamomma]

Yes, if you log in to myverizon or something to that effect you can view detailed text information such as if it were a text, picture, who from and to, what time and more...just not the actual content.

yes, fortunately for my kids, I can't see texts. (until I confiscate phones, muhahaa!)

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[Topcat]

Say the relationship between OM and HE was intense but OM wife finds out. The pressure on OM is great because his wife put's him in his place and he tells HE it's over. Poor girl is heartbroken (read SM's) but she pulls herself together and decides to start dating with someone closer to her own age ,someone she knew ,SS. OM ,somehow finds out(too much of a coincidence on her first date he contacts her) and says something like I goofed,maybe we can work this out after all.HE is besides herself and calls BW . Contact again with OM continues but something goes horribly amiss after she (and only she/OM knows why) meets him. Sound plausible?

 

[hockeymom4]

This is a way to explain the communication suddenly ending between the two, that would need to be explained to LE. You may say, if you were being questioned "I told her to stop contacting me", so that when LE looked at the records it would explain the sudden end of communication.

No one knew she was missing until her dad reported it the next evening and if you've been communicating on a regular basis and suddenly stopped you would need a reason for that. I'm confusing myself, lol!

Maybe I misunderstood. Her dad didn't report her missing. The police found her car almost 48hrs after he had his last communication with her. Maybe I misunderstood. I am NOT accusing the family. Just saying its so very odd to see a child text her dad during a date, but then have 48 hrs and no communication between them, especially with her newly leaving on her own, being alone, and having the ex to be concerned with according to the article. It just seems odd.

 

[jellybeanz]

What peaks my curiosity is this:

"According to the report, the roommate said the victim “seemed like she was crying and upset” due to receiving a call from a man the report says was nearly twice her age.
The report also said the victim previously had a relationship with the man, and that he said he left his wife and wanted to be with the victim."

http://www.myhorrynews.com/news/local/aynor/article_e27b8722-81fa-11e3-a440-001a4bcf6878.html

Why would Heather be crying if she was told by this man that he left his wife and wanted to be with Heather? This would be good news right, if she wanted to be with him? Did he tell her that he was leaving his wife PREVIOUS to the phone call, then on this particular call he says something other than that??
This confuses me.
IMOO.

We have to remember that it was Heather's roommate that provided the info that OM was splitting up from his wife.

OM himself said the complete opposite, that he wanted Heather to stop calling him. After lying to Police of course!

Contact between Heather's phone and OM occurred between 2.30AM (South Carolina time) and 6AM (SC Time)
A long period and more than one telephone call to tell someone to 'stop calling me'.
I know whos version I believe as OM has been the one proven to be a liar. And why would the roomie lie about the info she gave?
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IMO - OM had to have been watching Heather's condo, to know when she was away from her date and therefore alone. OM thus would have had to have known Heather was on this date the previous evening into the wee hours of the following day for that to fit.
I base this on her roomie getting a call at 2.41AM (SC Time), leaving a small window for OM to initially call her between that time and her date dropping her off, let's say 2.15AM.

To go to work? I usually have to be to work by 630am.

I think OM did an 'all nighter' and I'd bet my life he didn't work anywhere on that Wednesday at all.

 

[Softail]

The police can subpoena the service provider for her phone. They can provide all necessary ping, call, and text information. It doesn't matter what you can or can't see on your bill. The service provider has much more detail. We have seen it in many, many cases. :twocents:

 

[Arione]

Here's something from HLN today:
http://www.hlntv.com/article/2014/0...sing-myrtle-beach-father-letter-disappearance

 

[lstiff]

I think if HE were running away with or waiting for OM he would be gone too. IMO it has been a month and he had to know the s*it storm that would follow her up & missing IMO

 

[jellybeanz]

If the date says she was happy and roommate says she said the date went well but then was crying & upset over OM (older man) that would mean 1 of them is not telling the truth or is confused. She can't be crying on the phone with her roommate while still happy on the date with date guy all while posting pics on SM. I agree this timeline doesn't make sense at all. *IMO*

I reckon she was upset and sounded like crying, but the conversation regarding the date could have used words like 'had a great night' 'he's sooo lovely' 'i really want to see him again'.
I know if I was on a call to a close friend, I would possibly try and get her out of her upsettedness (is that even a word?) and change the subject to something happier.
It is possible to be happy and sad in the one conversation!!

Wish we knew what Heather told roomie first.
Was it the news of the OM, then roomie changed the way the conversation went to ask about the date and take Heathers mind of the situation she was in?
Or, Heather told her about the date, but broke down after being in two minds about maybe wanting to see her date again but OM was back on the scene?

 

[Topcat]

Maybe I misunderstood. Her dad didn't report her missing. The police found her car almost 48hrs after he had his last communication with her. Maybe I misunderstood. I am NOT accusing the family. Just saying its so very odd to see a child text her dad during a date, but then have 48 hrs and no communication between them, especially with her newly leaving on her own, being alone, and having the ex to be concerned with according to the article. It just seems odd.

I totally agree it does seem odd for this father to let that much time go by without any communication BUT maybe that speaks to the type of person HE is. Something that the family accepts because that's the way she rolls...

 

[Aeronomy]

I would think anyone who was being falsely accused of being involved in someone's disappearance would want that person found almost as bad as her parents do. Why would a wrongly-accused person thwart efforts to find missing person/solve the mystery that would ultimately clear their name?

If it were the MM then I'd say he doesn't want to deal with the wrath of his wife who more than likely would be distraught and/or enraged.

I understand the MM lied to LE about having contact, but I could see his lie going both ways.

One, because he's guilty as sin

and

Two, because he isn't guilty and initially didn't want his wife to know about the contact...but when it's obvious his wife will know of the communication, he recants and gives some bologna excuse for the call.

If he's innocent I can see him saying it was to tell HE to stop phoning...(his lie to try to salvage his marriage) but if he's guilty I can see it as his way to explain more than one phone call that took place

 

[cluciano63]

Just cannot get on here today...so annoying.

 

[Woe.be.gone]

Whomever is responsible for HE missing don't like He getting all the publicity she is getting.

Oh, thanks. Wonder what the person thought would happen. :waitasec: