passionflower
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ITA couch/livingrom..........hinky painting and the shrine with pix and candles???
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Rumored? I'm the one that posted on here about "the trash man". He is my brother. I explained all of that on here. He did go home early. He was running 104 degree temperature and went straight home instead of dumping his truck. He was at home the whole rest of the week with his wife, my mother, and his 4 children (3 of them under 2) who were all also sick running high fevers. At least two of them ended up in the er during the week.
The trash stayed in his truck in his front yard for the next week. He was contacted by le and FBI to follow up on where he had dumped his truck. He told them he had not. They did not search it and did not ever ask to search it. The trash company looked through it themselves. I don't know if he picked up trash at that hotel. He did not pick up the trash at BD's home or CD's home that day. He has never been contacted again after the FBI visited his workplace and interviewed all of the workers.
MOO, it all went down after DD left the house, on the couch, in the living room and BD and SA were the only witnesses. Whether accidental or premeditated, I have no idea.
I can't figure BD out. No emotion! I don't buy she doesn't know anything. I think she knows everything. Could SA have threatened her with her own life if she says anything to LE? Afterall he did threaten her life in Feb., 2010.
This case is heartbreaking for me. I know this happens alot more than MSM reports but I can't fathom how a mother could take the life of her own child, a child that grew inside of her, just under her heart.
MOO, it all went down after DD left the house, on the couch, in the living room and BD and SA were the only witnesses. Whether accidental or premeditated, I have no idea.
I can't figure BD out. No emotion! I don't buy she doesn't know anything. I think she knows everything. Could SA have threatened her with her own life if she says anything to LE? Afterall he did threaten her life in Feb., 2010.
This case is heartbreaking for me. I know this happens alot more than MSM reports but I can't fathom how a mother could take the life of her own child, a child that grew inside of her, just under her heart.
I''m with you on this, at least at this time....since info keeps getting more bizarre. I think it all happened on Sunday night too, after DD left, with an explosive argument between them all. HD might have said something flippant and it took off from there. If HD had been holding back, and we know she was very unhappy and scared, I think she may have let it all out. Nice holiday with the other family members and then she had to come back home to THAT. As much as we have seen BD defend SA, she would have nothing to do with anything tocause discourse in disturbing her relationship w/SA.
Violence broke out and got extremely out of hand. SA is a big "kid" and he could easily hurt HD lethally. Remember, HD was athlete and knew martial arts....she would not be easy to handle and, imo, that would be quite a struggle for BD...but not SA. I think even if he/they hurt HD, say a broken arm, etc and knew she would have to go to the hospital she would prolly let it all be known and they couldn't have that...child abuse.
JMO...tho may change as more info comes to light.
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Can someone help me out with this?
HD at first stated that DD left the house at around Sunday night 6-7 pm.....
DD corrected her and said it was around Sunday night 9pm....?
Now here is some of / a part of my theroy...
What if sometime between 6:30ish and 9ish has to do with HD disapearance...
BD did not Know DD was still there like maybe in his room... His room is on the opposite side of the house as HD and BD... With the LIVING ROOM in between them...
And DD has spoken to LE in regards to this and that is why BD has not spoken to him as often?
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Your point is well worth thinking about as BJ herself has stated that she told HD that she was not to leave the house. Why would she have told her that if she hadn't been reprimanded or grounded for some reason?I now think it's possible that both adults at the home that night did have something to do with what happened to Haylie due to one person believing that she lied to SA and went to play ball or to the store instead of to her Dad's or over to the friend's to spend the night. We still haven't heard any explanation about the spending the night business either. Either that or SA could have totally manipulated BD and put on such an awesome act the past 6 months that she believes anything. But, one odd thing that I haven't seen mentioned is the fact that it was a school holiday and Haylie was supposedly going to have to stay home all day long by herself. DD was spending the night elsewhere, so why wasn't Haylie off spending the night with a friend or having a friend over to stay with her. Why was she to stay home all alone and not leave instead of going to her grandma's or stay with her stepmother. It's very possible that there was a huge blow up about Haylie wanting to be with her Dad, her stepmother, and her paternal Grandmother. And yes, I'm saying stepmother because N. is being a good mom to Haylie even though not officially married.
What if SA was largely telling the truth and HD did leave the house at ~3.15-3.30? What then?
The last person to really see HD is probably not going to admit to it because everyone knows that the last person is the first suspect. In SA's case he admitted to being the last person before she was known to be missing, so there was no way to backtrack.
Given that they had no idea when or if DD would return home from his friends place, it would have been simpler and safer for SA to have said that HD wasn't there when he got home. Since SA was at his mothers house most of the day, DD may have come home and left again without SA knowing it, given that, it would be stupid to risk saying that she left after he got home if that wasn't true. So, if he/BD had done something to HD earlier, SA would not be saying what he is saying. And there simply isn't enough time to have done the deed and disposed of the evidence in the time frame when we know he was in the vicinity of his mothers house and when DD returned home. Unless someone has a rational explanation to explain around this?
To me that suggests that HD did indeed leave the house alive when SA said she did. So, my question is this, what are the options to consider after she leaves?