See, that's exactly what I was mentioning earlier - that especially with patients who are in a mental illness crisis, things like this must be considered.
And I also agree - in their right minds, they're definitely tools.
But the question becomes, and I'm really not sure what the best answer is, say a patient is in for congestive heart failure, and in critical need of meds (diuretics, et cetera). These meds must be taken, or the patient will likely die.
He refuses to take the meds because a minority brought them to him.
What should the RN do? Refuse to trade places with another nurse? Or trade positions, and get the patient his meds?
If the RN doesn't trade places, and the patient dies because they didn't take their meds...the RN will lose her license, or at the very least be fired. Not to mention the very high dollar lawsuit against the hospital, the RN, and everyone else that can be named.
We RNs have GOT to meet the patient where they are - however that happens. As was said, we're not there to be liked; we're there to make sure you get taken care of the way your Dr wants you to be.
It is offensive to do that sometimes...believe me, some of the patients we deal with do far worse to us than just demand we switch patients. But it hurts us, and is not a good, right, or ethical thing to be subjected to a patient's racism. But it is, imho, far worse to take a moral stand and someone die because of it.
I don't know the answer. It hasn't happened to me, but I think that should I meet someone who has a difficult time with a white nurse, I'll leave that patient to someone else...because the patient always comes first, and the patient always bleeds red, just like me. And they're the ones who need help if they're laying in the hospital bed, you know?
I don't know the answer. I hope that I never have to make a choice like that, but I do hope I'd make the choice in favor of the patient rather than myself.
Again, though, in the OPs post, this patient was an infant...so the patient wouldn't/couldn't have made the demand to switch. Again, I don't know what I'd do in that situation, either.
There is no way nursing could ever be considered "easy."
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