Good point, Lori. I don't think we know "why" NC cut off relations with BC, and we probably never will know.
But my goodness, I am so sick of this oral sex vs. intercourse and what "counts" debate. Everyone knows most men will use any technicality to deny being unfaithful. Just as most women use technicalities in order to "not count" certain notches in their bedposts! :crazy:
Is that now the oral sex smilie?