azwriter
Sister Mary Wanna
Good morning.
I've been thinking about poor Lisa and am having trouble falling asleep because of her. I've thought long and hard about the lights and have a real issue with them. Please forgive me if this has been already mentioned but it's almost impossible for me to read every post.
If DB did leave the door unlocked and the lights on when she went to bed, I find it difficult to believe a stranger would have come into the house. If the intruder turned on the lights, I'm wondering why the baby monitor didn't pick it up. Although I'm sure I have a different brand of monitor, I can hear my husband through our monitor typing three rooms away.
In my heart, I want to believe that DB and JI didn't have anything to do with her disappearance but I'm having a hard time. I'm also wondering when JI was scheduled to work that night. Was it days in advance? that day? did he volunteer to go in at the last minute? or uncharacteristically volunteer to stay late?
I appreciate your post Ginny because it asks questions I'm pondering too. I am having problems with a stranger entering the house also. I would think a stranger would enter only if he or she knew the father wasn't home and the mother was there alone. I can't imagine anyone entering a strange place for robbery or kidnapping without first casing the place in advance and for sure knowing what they were in for once they entered the house.
I imagine for a person to feel "safe" entering a home, I would think a lot would have to be in place like: doors and window unlocked or left open, lights OUT or very little lighting so as not be seen from someone outside the home, like a neighbor up late at night and an assurance that the person inside would not be easily woken up and no barking dogs.
Bottom line for me is that a person would not attemp entering a home for a crime unless they were pretty sure there was only a slight or no chance they would be caught or confronted once they were in the house.
I'm not a criminal. I don't do breaking and entering, but I think I'd need certain conditions I felt secure with before I attemped a kidnapping or theft.
jmo