I do not think Casey ever wanted a child. The act of giving birth does not necessarily a mother make. I believe Casey resented Caylee because she thought her parents loved the little girl too much. But reality is, I do not think her parents know how to love; they bought Caylee all kinds of cute clothes and toys, but love is not about material possessions. It is about nurturing and taking care for one's health and welfare. Casey's parents tried to force her to be a Mom, but you can't force that on a person.
It is entirely possible that Casey wished her child dead from the beginning. What finally pushed her to act toward this end was, IMO, Casey wanted Tony and Tony did not want Caylee. Casey probably believed Tony would have found her totally irresistable if there was no "little snothead" in the way. The child had to disappear so that Casey could live happily ever after with Tony. But Casey could not just hand Caylee over to her parents. She hated her parents. Especially Cindy, IMO. She was not about to let Cindy be happy with little Caylee because in Casey's warped mind Cindy's job was to dote on her and no one else.
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Sadly, I think fca would've kept her pregnancy a secret, if possible, all the way through to delivery. I think she would've been one of those moms you hear about that deliver in some bathroom stall, kill the infant upon birth and place him/her in a shoebox, or something, and toss it in a dumpster... She'd make up some bs story of delivering a stillborn to tell to any friends who may have known she was pregnant, and soak up the sympathy...IMO, she's stupid and arrogant enough to think she could get away with it, and she's lazy, impulsive, and careless enough to not think it through or consider any consequences. This is what usually leads to them getting caught. Typically these girls are younger than fca, but when you factor in her immaturity and personality she easily fits the profile, imo...
And I agree that fca couldn't just hand Caylee over to her parents. I don't think fca had that option. In hindsight, yes, but at the time I don't think CA would've allowed her to not be Caylee's mom. I think fca knew this, hence the spiteful beeoch. And CA's regret, imo, probably factors in to the depth of her denial, as well as her support for fca.
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I say she put Caylee in the sandbox...and wanted to make sure they weren't in the yard after work.
Yah, I keep going back and forth with this one, but I keep coming back to her phone being turned off for 2 hours... IMO, there wouldn't be a reason unless she was up to no good and trying to avoid detection... And if Caylee was in the sandbox at that time then what was she doing for 2 hrs with her phone off? If she was just cruising around trying to collect herself, no reason to shut off her phone. I doubt she had it off for any reasons that include planning or thought, like looking for a disposal sight, if Caylee wasn't even with her. That's way too much like work. If she put her in the sandbox I think she would've just hit the road and got the party started... Not a second to waste in starting that bella vita. She wasn't going to spend anymore of her precious time (or gas) dealing with the snothead.
And if the 7p calls to CA and AH were a final attempt to get a babysitter, then that would mean Caylee was alive and well after her phone was turned back on, which I just don't think was the case. And if the 4p flurry of calls was her desperately trying to pin down a babysitter, why turn the phone off for 2 hrs? Wouldn't she have her phone on waiting for a callback? I think there was intent and purpose when she made that final computer search, when she shut off that phone, and imo, it was after that flurry of calls when she past the point of no return, and that precious baby's fate was sealed.
Using comments on websleuths, it appears that the search for fool proof suffocation occurred at 2:15 PM on 6-16. What if Caylee was already dead at that point? What if FCA did the internet search frantically looking for a reason/excuse/lie to tell CA and GA and police about how the baby died? She couldn't explain that she had put too much duct tape on the child. She would go to jail for murder.. She had to have a logical explanation that everyone would believe. When she realized what she had done, she knew her mom would never forgive her. I wonder how much this case would have changed if FCA was able to reach her mother that day. MOO - my own theory - thinking out loud.
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Anything that might require planning on fca's part is hard for me to believe. She takes things as far as she can, without fear or anxiety of consequences. She stole AH's checks having to know she was going to be busted in just a few days. She used her own signature and id, without a care in the world. Fca can't think five seconds ahead because she doesn't have a conscience... She was texting AH and carrying on without an ounce of remorse that she had just cleared our her hardworking, honest, and trusting friends bank account! A friend who was helping her out by letting her borrow her car. For which she had to borrow because she destroyed hers by murdering her own baby and letting her corpse decompose in the trunk!... And prior to all that, fca had robbed her blind, taking all her cash, and convinced her that she saw her sleepwalking, and that AH hid her own money. This chick doesn't care enough about anything or anyone besides herself, and does nothing unless she's literally pinned into a corner. And even then, all she does is lie, throws fits, or hides behind others like a coward. Two honest things that CA said... "It smells like there's been a dead body in the damn car!" and "Fca is a s-o-c-i-o-p-a-t-h"....
All jmo.