Welcome
Now for the nitty gritty and sorry I'm so late, our times are very different..
1)do you believe the reason Nel seems to be ignoring much of what are driving us nuts are because he can't prove they have to do with the OP's state of mind? (jeans outside, whether there was blood on the keys in the toilet door.. or not, indicating they may have been OP's spares... records of the alarm system showing who and when they were turned on or not... whether the evidence in the house supports chicken stir-fry, or a midnight salad and cheese... was the toilet light burned out, electrical components in it fried, switch broken, or the bulb broken... bedroom door bullet/airgun holes... spare room having been used... gawd the list just goes on and on.
2)will Roux offer up all of the things he kept promising the court he would during his cross of the PT witnesses or is that just his style to try and get the witnesses to change their testimony?
3)what do you think of the whole watch missing, sister and lawyer friend of OP "stealing" RS's handbag from the scene... removing other potential evidence as well like the cell phone, possibly items from the safes(thumb drives can hold a lot of evidence), perhaps an unlicensed firearm to match the .38 ammo, garbage with perhaps ripped up notes or chinese takeout containers from that night, the wiping and syncing of the i-pads, etc..?
4)do you agree or disagree that the bat hits probably came first... the trajectory of the bullets indicate that OP must have moved to the right... OP could possibly have tracked the approximate movement/location of RS through the chunk missing from the door at the angle and distance the trajectory shows?
5)blood spatter while moving RS or arterial spatter on the stairway?
Thanks for any answers you feel able to give!