kammiemc
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I don't know. My son let his ex stay on his plan for a year because he felt bad and knew she had money issues. She was a student and her phone was much cheaper being on his plan. And he didnt want to upset her, make things worse so he let it go for a year. Maybe it was a similar situation with BD. He might have thought he was being kind by letting her stay on the plan for now. I don't think that was necessarily misleading her, unless he was texting her flirty stuff etc.
I agree. I'm not sure why he is being criticized for being, what sounds like, an empathetic person? Certainly he couldn't have anticipated what BD was capable of or would have been calling the cops and not texting her good luck or letting her stay on his plan. If he thought they could be friends I don't think that makes him bad; or even if he had mixed feelings about the break up I don't think that makes him bad, and certainly not culpable for BD's actions. I don't get the inequality thing. These are young people. People date the wrong people and hopefully eventually find someone right. But, heck, even that doesn't work out sometimes. Most people aren't perfect in how they handle relationships and breakups. Most don't kill others.
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