lisamac12073
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I didn't say they were MDs....they are all college educated and come from good families, yep, true story, like it or not.
In the Dallas area...most male doctors want the typical Dallas wife (Barbie) who will impress their friends and colleagues....that's just the way it is here.
If a male doctor has a choice between a gorgeous, sophisticated dentist or a so-so dental student from Pleasant Grove, who do you think he is going to pick.....
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hmmm...I live right up the road from Dallas, and I'm there all the time (friends and relatives). I'm thinking that he'd probably keep them both. What's so-so to you, may not be so-so to him. It was a two-year relationship, not a one-night stand. Male friends have told me that "crazy chick" sex is the best. You just have to know when to cut it off. Nobody ever taught RP that lesson.
I think it was wrong of him to still contact her after he met KH and knew it was serious when BD wanted that with him.RP and BD broke up but might have occasionally communicated with each other. There is nothing unusual in that. There is no law that says you have to break off all communication with your ex. I've seen nothing to suggest RP was still seeing BD. He was moving to another state, and BD wasn't even invited there for a visit when they were still dating.
BD knew too much of what KH and RP were doing and where they were going....how did she know this ? Did RP tell her ? If so, that was insensitive of him.
I think she could have found out a lot from their social media, without RP having to tell her anything. KH was putting up a lot of information on social media, including photos of herself with RP.
There is also a possibility that because she was still on the phone plan, she had access to RP's text messages to other people.
As far as I know BD had no history of any violence. I don't think he had any idea of what she was up to.
This man was in the 30s, not some green twenty-something. He knew this chick was crazy, if nothing else, he knew she was crazy FOR HIM. His momma didn't even have to tell him that. He was on an ego-trip.
No way in this world I would be living with a successful doctor in a one-bedroom apartment, and when I asked to move into a two-bedroom - he tells me to get a job. Now that's crazy to me! WTF? He wouldn't have spent another night in my bed.
He was toying with this woman's emotions, and he over-played his hand. Then, when he found someone he liked better, all hell broke loose. He stayed in it too long because it was easy for him, and she accepted anything he dished out.
He never thought it would end like this, but now that it has, he has moved on. He had plans to move on with Kendra after only knowing her a short time. In my opinion, this dude knows how to keep it moving. He gets in where he fits in. To make matters worse, he's only average-looking at best.
I don't mean to upset anyone, but this is my opinion of him. I know many may disagree, but this is how I feel. I respect the way you feel, and we can agree to just disagree on this. I have volunteered my time with young ladies for years (maternity homes, abuse shelters, etc), and I see "this guy" a lot. I wish women would use their heads more, instead of just their hearts.
I wonder what his mother is thinking now after the fact that she told him BD was crazy and now such a wonderful person is dead because of this mess.
I do put some of the blame on him.....
I also wonder what were the red flags RP's mom saw in BD.
I guess everything will come out in the trial !
A friend of mine has already said that she will be there !