Just one comment out of me re the timelines : In defense of anyone who can't get the timeline right, I have a very hard time with large events in my life, I cant remember times period , I go by day and night , dark and light and I'm not totally consistent, I think with major painful events sometimes that clouds the way you think of time. Example : one of my dear friends killed herself and that whole day seems like it was 30 minutes period, another one of my friends was accidentally crushed at work, he died in the hospital, we sat by his bed side for what seemed to me weeks , I spoke with someone recently and found out it was 2 days he lived before passing and I was there almost the whole time with few breaks, it was just simply traumatic, I'm not saying that's what this is but the possibility is there.