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IOn another topic, I have seen posts hoping there will be no protests from right to lifers. I hope the family is protecfted from more grief. However, there are people who feel strongly that disconnectinbg life support here is murder to the unborn child. This is America.They have a right to their beliefs and to civilly protest. Thus far, I have seen no evidence, despite asking, that any such protestors have acted cruelly, rudely, or in a threatening manner to this family. They truly belive a little baby is being murdered. Imagine how horrified and saddened they feel right now. I think our world would be a better place if everyone tried to put themselves in the shoes of the other and tried to imagine how they feel and why and not simply brush them off as stupid and wrong.
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I'm one of the posters who hopes there are no protests at the hospital. I thought I had made the distinction clear, but I guess I should have said it better. I fully support the pro life protestors/ demonstrators to protest and demonstrate as much as they wish, but there has to be clear limits placed on where that occurs, IMO.
I strongly believe that protests and demonstrations should NOT take place on the grounds of a hospital, or clinic. I think it is inappropriate, no matter what the group is protesting or demonstrating for, or against. Hospitals and clinics are for health care, and most are private property. It is an unreasonable and unfair disturbance for protestors to demonstrate ON hospital property. It's difficult for patients, staff, and family members of patients, who should have some rights to clear and unobstructed entry, and peace and quiet, etc. It is a terrible emotional and physical imposition on others trying to do their jobs, for protest groups to demonstrate on hospital grounds. It is a distraction that could have negative effects on staff, and the patients they care for. I strongly, strongly believe that protests and demonstrations should never take place on hospital grounds (or clinic grounds), and there should be a wide buffer area as to what is a public space near hospitals and clinics, and appropriate for protest gathering.
Now, the local government should designate some public space, maybe a public area around government buildings, or a public park, or other gathering spot as a "demonstration area", and I'm just fine with that. Provided that the group is peaceful, lawful, and respects the rights of others. I just strongly believe that no group should be able to interfere with the free movement, and the rights of staff, patients, and family members of sick people in hospitals.
The Jahi McMath family-coordinated hospital grounds protests disgusted me. As I watched that situation unfold, those protests became the initial turning point, IMO, for where public sympathy for the grieving and distraught family turned to confusion, then disgust, and anger. The family actually recruited the public to harass and stalk hospital administrators, and posted their personal schedules, personal contact numbers, etc on social media. The family coordinated marches and protests on private grounds. I still cannot believe that was allowed to happen. It is an example of the extreme, IMO, deference, tolerance, and patience that the CHO hospital has demonstrated toward the Mc Math family. The hospital let this happen on private property, and then the family had the gall to complain about "odd" people flooding the lobbies and waiting rooms, and bothering them. Wow.
And yes, it is true, but unsettling to admit that some groups who demonstrate and protest regularly do have very unstable members, and the realistic potential for violence DOES exist. That is basic "threat analysis" and essential intelligence-- what is the history of "this" group? How worried should we be about this group?
There have been extremist pro life groups who have been grim examples of groups with unstable members, who have engaged in horrific, premeditated violence in the name of their cause. Bombing health clinics. Shooting a doctor as he sat in church. Extremist protestors mean that there is a REALISTIC necessity for increased security, in "soft target" areas, to protect the public, and the vulnerable (patients). Hospitals and clinics are soft targets. That is always, always worrisome. IMO.
I'm sure my military background , and my role as a health care professional, colors my perspectives in this area, and makes me more wary and alert than some other folks. FWIW.
I want to add more, lol!
As an example, our family travels by air frequently. I have discussed with my husband and family about what I would do if I found myself in a situation where I observed "worrisome" behavior from others around me. Airports, for example-- if I observe certain behaviors in other passengers, or demonstrators, I will collect our children and as quickly and unobtrusively as possible, remove us from that situation. Even if it means we miss our flight, or are stranded. People working in hospitals, and patients, and family members of sick patients, are "captive" and vulnerable to whatever is going on there on the grounds. In most circumstances, they cannot leave, or stop visiting, or extricate themselves from the situation. It is most unsafe, and unfair, for them to be held captive to the agenda of ANY group.