H_Chick
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I think casey has definitely had her brains FRIED by that mother of hers.
Im not making any excuses for her, because there is no excusing the way that CA has behaved right the way through this last 6 months, but I think that her emotional circuitry could well have been blown out by her mother when she was just a child.
Sometimes the psychological pressure and abuse is worse than a physical beating can be, and whos to say CAs mother hasnt been a nasty manipulative cow to her right from day one?
Maybe not, but maybe so.
It could easily be imagined that when a 19 yr old CA (I guess thats about how old she must have been when she got pregnant with the little one) told her parents that she was pregnant, they likely wouldnt have been thrilled about it, and casey would have been pleading her case that she WOULD make a good settled mother, and that this baby was just what she needed to settle her down, except that most of her friends wouldve still been out and about partying etc.
Much and all as GA and CinA loved the little one, I am sure that they still anticipated that it was their daughters call to have the child, and it was still her duty to raise her, too.
CA has learnt the process of lying constantly, about every facet of her life, probably from a very young age, likely as a mechanism to escape extreme pressure/reaction/shame from her mother and maybe father too.
She is delusional from the get go - she has lied about schooling, employment, nannys, everything, to everyone. I bet you anything you like that she really believes her own PR too.
But I dont think that anyone can discount the input that one or both parents may have given over the years, its either that or she really is extremely mentally ill with some narcissistic personality disorder (or maybe both).
If CA werent such a pathological liar, it would almost be a sad case.
I know she isnt getting much sympathy and to be honest I dont feel any for CA either, but depending on whether you favour nature or nurture, CA was also born a blank sheet, for her parents to write on.
Im not making any excuses for her, because there is no excusing the way that CA has behaved right the way through this last 6 months, but I think that her emotional circuitry could well have been blown out by her mother when she was just a child.
Sometimes the psychological pressure and abuse is worse than a physical beating can be, and whos to say CAs mother hasnt been a nasty manipulative cow to her right from day one?
Maybe not, but maybe so.
It could easily be imagined that when a 19 yr old CA (I guess thats about how old she must have been when she got pregnant with the little one) told her parents that she was pregnant, they likely wouldnt have been thrilled about it, and casey would have been pleading her case that she WOULD make a good settled mother, and that this baby was just what she needed to settle her down, except that most of her friends wouldve still been out and about partying etc.
Much and all as GA and CinA loved the little one, I am sure that they still anticipated that it was their daughters call to have the child, and it was still her duty to raise her, too.
CA has learnt the process of lying constantly, about every facet of her life, probably from a very young age, likely as a mechanism to escape extreme pressure/reaction/shame from her mother and maybe father too.
She is delusional from the get go - she has lied about schooling, employment, nannys, everything, to everyone. I bet you anything you like that she really believes her own PR too.
But I dont think that anyone can discount the input that one or both parents may have given over the years, its either that or she really is extremely mentally ill with some narcissistic personality disorder (or maybe both).
If CA werent such a pathological liar, it would almost be a sad case.
I know she isnt getting much sympathy and to be honest I dont feel any for CA either, but depending on whether you favour nature or nurture, CA was also born a blank sheet, for her parents to write on.