VA - Anjelica "AJ" Hadsell, 18, Norfolk, 3 March 2015 #17

[MsMarple]

I didn't think that at all. It's just crazy because this petition was started long ago when she first went missing, which I find so weird that this was already in the works that this was being focused on. It's like they went straight from trying to get the media focus off of WH and the focus straight onto this alert system. IMO.

You're being kinder than what I'm thinking. What ticks me off is that they used AJ to promote their scheme. The whole "flood the Tweets" or whatever they called it last week was nothing more than a way to also tweet about the missing persons project. And the fundraising.

Everyone, and I mean everyone connected to the Hadsells have trampled over poor AJ in their rush to get to the cash. It makes me sick to my stomach - literally.

http://www.13newsnow.com/story/news...persons-social-media-initiative/25787035/#_=_

 

[razzledazzle]

Wow, y'all covered a lot of ground tonight. Even reading backwards, I'm still behind. I keep looking for a COD and POI. Nothing.... which tells me that LE has got this. Zach, You and the girls are in my prayers. Fellow sleuthers, yall rock... and are also in my prayers. <3 AJ

 

[silverkitty]

Totally O/T, but I need to vent... I had an issue with some major sexual harassment on my job this week. (Actually, I think it's been going on for a while, I just didn't get it ) Anyway... After much reflection, I reported it to my boss this morning. Within an hour this man was terminated and escorted from the premises. While he deserves to eat dirt, please keep his wife and 2 children in your prayers.... I'm not looking for a discussion here... just venting because our attorneys told me to keep my mouth zipped.....

Sorry, Razzle, I've been there and it's a tough thing to go through. My own experience wasn't nearly as fruitful, I'm glad your employer took immediate action.

 

[desertmama]

I'm hung up on the whole "chore" thing. Her chores were done extra good? She was away at college. What was she expected to do on her weekends and vacations? I mean really, did she come home to wash dishes and vacuum?

 

[NWLady]

The "petition" is the #1 subject on Bring AJ Home FB page.

 

[la2cabo]

Jmo I still can't see a motive here, unless an assault took place. But that seems odd to me too. Jmo

I totally agree clu, which is why I haven't been able to convince myself that WH committed this crime. He's definitely not the most upstanding citizen, however, that doesn't mean he killed and dumped his daughter. Another problem I'm having is LE hasn't charged him with murder. It seems to me that if it were so clear cut (as many posters appear to think) then he would have been charged by now.

I will say the one thing that bothers me a lot, like a nagging migraine, is the fact that his sister went on record that she no longer supports her brother and is beginning to have questions. That to me is very telling.

 

[DexterMorgan]

I totally agree clu, which is why I haven't been able to convince myself that WH committed this crime. He's definitely not the most upstanding citizen, however, that doesn't mean he killed and dumped his daughter. Another problem I'm having is LE hasn't charged him with murder. It seems to me that if it were so clear cut (as many posters appear to think) then he would have been charged by now.

I will say the one thing that bothers me a lot, like a nagging migraine, is the fact that his sister went on record that she no longer supports her brother and is beginning to have questions. That to me is very telling.

Well LE may see this as the ultimate betrayal by a suspect who has some people thinking that he did what any father would have done.

So I think they may charge him on the day before the funeral. Idk

 

[Anne aka Her??]

I'm hung up on the whole "chore" thing. Her chores were done extra good? She was away at college. What was she expected to do on her weekends and vacations? I mean really, did she come home to wash dishes and vacuum?

I don't think they were set chores but in another thread Zach said that parts of the house had been cleaned that AJ typically didn't clean and cleaner than I guess she typically left them. Could be nothing. Could be something. To me, it sounded like someone else had done the cleaning, not AJ. Since the other girls were at school and mom at work, than who? I suspect WH.

 

[CabinFever]

I haven't commented because I keep waiting for something more to come up ... I mean, information is terribly limited. I thought Wes was guilty from the very first interview I heard; when AJ "departed his presence, and it was the last time SHE saw HIM. But usually we get a little more information as time moves on ... I would hate to be the one who accused an innocent person because he said something stupid. Thank goodness he didn't stop there.
Even though I have been here for a long time, I am still so unsure of the rules. I am not sure if I am allowed to say that I think Wes' brother is also involved and that although JH may not have been involved, she was not unaware of what was going on.

When he said LE accused him of marrying JH because he was desiring AJ - he did not deny that. YIKES! This makes me think it was a sexual homicide.

Now that Anjelica has been found =( unfortunately, I am suffering from anxiety now, desperate to know what in the world happened - what did he really do to her, and WHY?

I don't think I can emotionally handle another unsolved case (Hailey Dunn, Kyron Horton, Hailey Cummings...) so I am trying not to get all wrapped up again. But, it's hard not to. Anjelica has moved me =(

PS I can't remember who has the quote that says, "every day she is not found is a good day" by Billie Dunn, but, you make me literally laugh out loud every time you comment and I read that at the bottom!!! The nerve of that vile woman!!!

 

[Happyshoes]

Same here. With no listed suspect from LEO, I have varied opinions that make my hinky meter go crazy. JMO

Did you read the interview with WH's sister?

 

[spamelope]

Agreed.

Id be very surpised if a suspect/suspects arent named by the end of the week.

I think they're waiting for after the funeral. I think there's going to be a lot of LE there, and not just to pay their respects....

 

[Latestforever]

Totally O/T, but I need to vent... I had an issue with some major sexual harassment on my job this week. (Actually, I think it's been going on for a while, I just didn't get it ) Anyway... After much reflection, I reported it to my boss this morning. Within an hour this man was terminated and escorted from the premises. While he deserves to eat dirt, please keep his wife and 2 children in your prayers.... I'm not looking for a discussion here... just venting because our attorneys told me to keep my mouth zipped.....

OT: I know that you don't want a discussion about this. I just wanted to say; he was the one who brought this upon himself. If my husband were to do something like that I would want to know.

 

[Anne aka Her??]

I haven't commented because I keep waiting for something more to come up ... I mean, information is terribly limited. I thought Wes was guilty from the very first interview I heard; when AJ "departed his presence, and it was the last time SHE saw HIM. But usually we get a little more information as time moves on ... I would hate to be the one who accused an innocent person because he said something stupid. Thank goodness he didn't stop there.
Even though I have been here for a long time, I am still so unsure of the rules. I am not sure if I am allowed to say that I think Wes' brother is also involved and that although JH may not have been involved, she was not unaware of what was going on.

When he said LE accused him of marrying JH because he was desiring AJ - he did not deny that. YIKES! This makes me think it was a sexual homicide.

Now that Anjelica has been found =( unfortunately, I am suffering from anxiety now, desperate to know what in the world happened - what did he really do to her, and WHY?

I don't think I can emotionally handle another unsolved case (Hailey Dunn, Kyron Horton, Hailey Cummings...) so I am trying not to get all wrapped up again. But, it's hard not to. Anjelica has moved me =(

PS I can't remember who has the quote that says, "every day she is not found is a good day" by Billie Dunn, but, you make me literally laugh out loud every time you comment and I read that at the bottom!!! The nerve of that vile woman!!!

I think it is Wes's brother/nephew also. Wouldn't be surprised if the family spokesperson was involved also.

 

[Happyshoes]

As for motive, I just keep going back to WH saying that LE inferred to him that AJ was "going to tell on him" and I give that a lot of credence. Plus I would love to see the pictures of AJ on his phone, esp after that Flickr photo. I think it was either about him coming to the house to get his ammo, gun and/or hidden drugs, or maybe even just to talk to her to try to get him back home, and she stood up to him. Or second scenario, he tried to get her to get high with him possibly, if she went to the hotel to get the money he was giving her (if there was any truth to that). His world was coming undone, he went back to his old ways...bad things happened. I don't think anybody helped him, JMO. I guess we'll find out soon enough.

 

[hey-Debbie]

The "petition" is the #1 subject on Bring AJ Home FB page.

It is disgusting that they havent even buried her and this is going on. I dont even see how JH could even have the focus to even be backing this system. I would have thought someone had lost their ever living mind to come to me with that if it were my child missing. The focus should have been strictly on her and not trying to contact legislators and get some kind of SM alert system running, so dysfunctional. And trust me I cant really say want I want to with this being a public forum. SMH


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[Inthedetails]

OT: I know that you don't want a discussion about this. I just wanted to say; he was the one who brought this upon himself. If my husband were to do something like that I would want to know.

Off-topic tangent warning: I was harassed on the job as a young person and didn't do anything about it except avoid the creep as best I could. A few years later, we ended up at the same company again. He ended up getting fired for harassing another co-worker.

I have kicked myself forever for not saying something about him when he first harassed me. I regret I didn't give my co-workers a heads-up about him - perhaps if I had said something I would have prevented another woman from his harassment.

You, on the other hand, shined a light on the problem and perhaps saved someone else from this same plight. That took guts. WTG.

Just had to get that off my chest. I NEVER talk about this...part of me still blames myself though I know I did nothing to bring it on because I always thought the guy was CREEPY. I know I didn't give out any vibes that I welcomed his interest. Blech, makes me feel like I need a bath just thinking about the situation.

Yuck. I feel for you, but you did good, girl.

 

[CabinFever]

I think it is Wes's brother/nephew also. Wouldn't be surprised if the family spokesperson was involved also.

Wait, who is the spokesperson? I thought it was the Grandmother. She's the only one I have seen on TV. Is the person he was referring to as his "brother" actually his "cousin", or vice versa?

Has he spoken out at all? If so, that's something I haven't seen yet!

 

[cluciano63]

Jmo if they had evidence, they would not wait, since he is already in jail. They may not have cause of death yet. It will be horrible if they can't show she was murdered.

 

[arkansasmimi]

I think it should be against the law to allow felons into the homes with children, if not related as a parent, by blood. Countless children have been killed by boyfriends of women who have taken criminals into their homes. We have seen it here dozens of times. Jmo

I understand what your saying .. don't know what the statistics are but I would venture to say there are a lot that there are many men and women in homes with children that don't have a criminal record but are just as evil or more than some felons. Jmo. I hate seeing ALL people Grouped in categories, especially so broadly.

 

[2Hope4]

On the other hand, WH is in jail, and with no bond, so he isn't going anywhere. No rush to charge him with anything else. Not like he if he were not in jail, and a flight risk, then yes, we'd probably have seen an arrest by now. As it is, time is on LE's side.