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Found what appears to be a local chatboard; interesting comment on a possible rap sheet for boyfriend (posted by "Josh Turner Wingspan" a little over halfway down, posted 3/7 11:06pm):
http://www.fairfaxunderground.com/forum/read.php?2,519264,523673,quote=1
Not much info, but does mention a history of "drunken outbursts."
(Hope it's OK to post this now that the BF's name has been released; I can never keep track of what/who we're allowed to discuss)
ETA: If the boyfriend is really controlling when it comes to relationships, it seems odd to me that he'd take up with a married woman. Hard to have someone "all to yourself" when she has legal ties to another man. I don't know--maybe it's a bigger control "high" to feel like you're taking her away from another man, like that makes you the "winner" somehow. The mix of "controlling" and "married to another man" just seems odd to me, and makes me wonder if he knew she was married all along, or just found out recently when plans for the Hawaii trip were being made.
Also, I know there has been a lot of conflicting information given out about her relationship with her family, etc., but it just doesn't sound to me like she spent all that much time with her son. (If nothing else, between school, and work, and a demanding live-in boyfriend, when would she have had time to commute for regular visits?) I wonder if either the boyfriend didn't like her seeing her child by another man, or if maybe she felt like she was protecting her son by keeping some distance. Just speculation, of course, not a judgment on her parenting and/or love for her child.
http://www.fairfaxunderground.com/forum/read.php?2,519264,523673,quote=1
Not much info, but does mention a history of "drunken outbursts."
(Hope it's OK to post this now that the BF's name has been released; I can never keep track of what/who we're allowed to discuss)
ETA: If the boyfriend is really controlling when it comes to relationships, it seems odd to me that he'd take up with a married woman. Hard to have someone "all to yourself" when she has legal ties to another man. I don't know--maybe it's a bigger control "high" to feel like you're taking her away from another man, like that makes you the "winner" somehow. The mix of "controlling" and "married to another man" just seems odd to me, and makes me wonder if he knew she was married all along, or just found out recently when plans for the Hawaii trip were being made.
Also, I know there has been a lot of conflicting information given out about her relationship with her family, etc., but it just doesn't sound to me like she spent all that much time with her son. (If nothing else, between school, and work, and a demanding live-in boyfriend, when would she have had time to commute for regular visits?) I wonder if either the boyfriend didn't like her seeing her child by another man, or if maybe she felt like she was protecting her son by keeping some distance. Just speculation, of course, not a judgment on her parenting and/or love for her child.