We respectfully disagree. My brother was killed. Not like Travis, but killed. It was beyond horrific to feel so much pain and then look at my parents when I knew their pain was worse. Unless you have experienced that pain, you don't know. TA's death was so vile, that I can't begin to imagine the family's pain, and I am not 'telling' anyone to forgive. I am saying that when you forgive, your heart is free. That being said, the trial has to end first before there is any chance for those dear people.