rosemadderlake
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I have a public Instagram page but it is not connected to my identity.
I looked through Ingrids Instagram page this afternoon. I see a young woman (40 is young imo) seeking to identify herself as ok in the world, a light side - fun loving woman, loves baseball, and a great mom with three happy and beautiful daughters with friends and family.
But- what I see in all the spiritual quotes, especially, is the very material a predator can potentially use to connect with a victim. As a cautionary note it is not only dating websites that can be deceiving but the public info on social media can be the perfect ruse for a sociopath seeking to mirror to gain trust.
I was raised in the cold war era so no facebook, no twitter, no identifiable connection is my motto. I have always been wary of putting info out there in the world, blind I know times have changed and it is different for a younger generation but I feel this predator was able to assess and act on her vulnerability, in addition to her attractiveness.
She had just been through a divorce without knowing the circumstances I would venture to guess she could have been emotionally compromised by that trauma, adjustment, and spiritual quest to move on. This made her very, very, vulnerable, imo. I can remember the intensity of entering midlife very vital, very alive, but not 20 years old anymore. It is a crossroads.
My other strong feeling is that she was killed in the car where no one could hear her You would think she would be screaming bloody murder there is a good distance between me and my neighbors and yet, I can always hear when a fight escalates with one couple next door.
-Tragic doesnt even come close to what happened to this beautiful woman. The trauma for her children and I am assuming the feelings of unthinkable regret of her ex must be so enormous.
I looked through Ingrids Instagram page this afternoon. I see a young woman (40 is young imo) seeking to identify herself as ok in the world, a light side - fun loving woman, loves baseball, and a great mom with three happy and beautiful daughters with friends and family.
But- what I see in all the spiritual quotes, especially, is the very material a predator can potentially use to connect with a victim. As a cautionary note it is not only dating websites that can be deceiving but the public info on social media can be the perfect ruse for a sociopath seeking to mirror to gain trust.
I was raised in the cold war era so no facebook, no twitter, no identifiable connection is my motto. I have always been wary of putting info out there in the world, blind I know times have changed and it is different for a younger generation but I feel this predator was able to assess and act on her vulnerability, in addition to her attractiveness.
She had just been through a divorce without knowing the circumstances I would venture to guess she could have been emotionally compromised by that trauma, adjustment, and spiritual quest to move on. This made her very, very, vulnerable, imo. I can remember the intensity of entering midlife very vital, very alive, but not 20 years old anymore. It is a crossroads.
My other strong feeling is that she was killed in the car where no one could hear her You would think she would be screaming bloody murder there is a good distance between me and my neighbors and yet, I can always hear when a fight escalates with one couple next door.
-Tragic doesnt even come close to what happened to this beautiful woman. The trauma for her children and I am assuming the feelings of unthinkable regret of her ex must be so enormous.