LionRun
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We may be a sorted bunch, we may not conform to tradition, but we are real. We are people. He was a good man. He was, the kind of man who would honor a woman. I don't know what happened on that day... I am so sad. There are so many stories like this. I guess I just don't get it. I still feel in shock. This AFF, thing and site for me has been a link to other adults. I've been at home for nearly 13 years. I think it was a way to talk about grown up things. It was and never has been all about sex. I mean you take 2 or more "grown" folk.... and we talk about everything from sex to politics..... Politics to religion... religion to the color to paint one's home. I despise that connotation that we are all a bunch of perverts. It just simply is not true. I am sure there are some. I know it. However the community is just that. It behaves like any other. In a "real time" world it is not ok for "old" to prey upon "young"... nor is it there. I've seen 18-21 year old women (girls really) coming in ... exploring... The MEN POUNCE... and in general, good men and women put a stop to this... They make it known that it is not okay.. I just don't want Jeremy to be put out to bay with the "pervs". He was a normal man. If we all say we never as an adult desired attention or gratification we would not be telling the truth. I think MANY of us have thought about how it would feel to have more than ONE Set of hands touching us. Or to participate in the gratification of such. I know Jeremy was a man of honor, and also a man who CHOSE to please. I can't say he was not having an affair... I don't really know this. I DO know... with all of my heart. He was a good man. We all make errs in judgment... Perhaps he did as well. I wish I knew. My prayer continues to be that his family have peace. The students he taught remember his electric smile. That the students hear his truth. I know he would talk about "jumping for today". Those are not his words I know. It does not really matter. Those kids were his dream. This man was waiting to find "that" woman to have kids with. He would have been an excellent father.
Please do not let the media sway you of what you know to be a good man. *deee_eeeeep inhale* Something awful happened. It is NOT unlike the awful things that happen everyday. They happen to children, wives, women, men, .... etc. I am sick to death. It consumes me. I am angry. I am sad. I ... have no one who is going to Dave Matthews with me now. He was my "date" my friend, my confidant.
For in the woods, he'd have plucked a spider.... and in the world, a spider plucked him.... God Bless you Jeremy, and sleep well. I will see you soon... mimi
Mrsmimi, please know that no one can sway me into thinking less of Jeremy or anyone with a, "questionable" history. I am working on a case where the unidentified victim was possibly a prostitute. Yet, I named her, Princess Blue, and she will be a beloved Princess always to me. Articles have been written about her, and even the media now call her Princess Blue.
It is no different than for Jeremy. I am not into that particular lifestyle, but that Jeremy was makes him no less valuable to me. I was interested in what happened to Jeremy initially because there is a very remote possibility that the disappearance of Nicholas Fransisco may be connected to Jeremy's murder. But, after reading about Jeremy's case I care about what happened to him as well.
Have you heard any news about how the investigation into Jeremy's murder is going?
Again, I am so sorry for your loss. I can tell that you cared a great deal for him.
Lion