WA WA - Oakley Carlson, 5, missing during welfare check, Oakville, 10 Feb 2021 *mom guilty, identity theft*

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WOW. So they were allowed to go on their Merry way with that lame excuse. SMH. No mandatory reporting about that. From the Judge, to DCFS, and the doctors in charge of overseeing the 6 year olds care. What a disgrace each and every one of them are to their professions. They are complicit in this the DNA donors could not have done this without them. MOO
 

Thanks for posting this!

Good lord. According to the article @erik28 posted, the poor 6-year old, who's blind in both eyes, was diagnosed shortly after birth with "failure to thrive" meaning she was smaller/less developed than the "norm" for her age/sex. She needed daily injections of human growth hormone and did not get them. Parents were told that failure to administer these daily injections would result in their child suffering "increasing signifiacnt physical impairment" and still couldn't be bothered to do even the bare minimum.
 
In my experience, not always. I live in WA and last year, a relative had her baby removed from her home due to drug abuse. CPS contacted some family members to ask if we would take the baby. My spouse and I said we would happily take the baby into our home. CPS said they'd get back to us, but we never heard from them again. This was all over the phone. They never came to our house or met with us at all. We later learned the baby was placed with a non-relative foster family. I don't understand why.
I do know in the past I remember hearing that the bio parents could refuse a family member and opt for foster care. It is a spiteful thing but it is often done.
 
Niran Al-Agba: It's time for state to overhaul CPS

One year later, Oakley Carlson provides yet another cautionary tale. As has been reported, no one can confirm seeing her alive since February 10, 2021. How is this possible when social services have been involved since Oakley was seven months old? That is when she was placed with foster parents, where she thrived for two years. In November 2019, the court ordered Oakley returned to her biological parents. The foster family, Erik and Jamie Jo Hiles, kept tabs on Oakley, contacting authorities’ multiple times with concerns about her safety, including a call made in January 2021. It appears CPS dropped the ball.
 
Niran Al-Agba: It's time for state to overhaul CPS

One year later, Oakley Carlson provides yet another cautionary tale. As has been reported, no one can confirm seeing her alive since February 10, 2021. How is this possible when social services have been involved since Oakley was seven months old? That is when she was placed with foster parents, where she thrived for two years. In November 2019, the court ordered Oakley returned to her biological parents. The foster family, Erik and Jamie Jo Hiles, kept tabs on Oakley, contacting authorities’ multiple times with concerns about her safety, including a call made in January 2021. It appears CPS dropped the ball.
They claim they can't talk about the case in order to protect the children. Don't know how my eyeballs keep from rolling right out of my head. They need to change to their name from DCYF to CYA. MOO
 
DEC 29, 2021
Oakley Carlson missing: Timeline of her disappearance | king5.com
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Detectives believe the circumstances surrounding the child's disappearance are suspicious and "criminal in nature."

[...]

Aug. 2017

Oakley is sent to live with foster parents, EH and JH. Oakley’s foster mom told KING 5 there were “multiple red flags” while the 5-year-old was in their care.

Oct. 2019

JH said the state contacted her and her husband that Oakley was going to be placed back in her parents’ care.

Nov. 2019

Oakley is returned to her biological parents, Andrew Carlson and Jordan Bowers.

Dec. 25, 2020

Oakley goes to her grandparents' home for Christmas with her family. During the investigation, Oakley’s grandmother told police Oakley “didn’t look well.” According to court documents, Oakley’s grandmother told police Oakley had dark circles under her eyes, pale skin and that she had scratches or sores on her face.

Oakley’s grandmother called Child Protective Services (CPS) after seeing Oakley, but never heard “anything about it after that time.” Court documents say Oakley’s grandmother contacting CPS regarding Oakley “made great waves within the family,” and Oakley’s parents have not spoken to or seen the grandparents since then.

Feb. 10, 2021

Oakley was last seen alive by someone “who is associated with the family,” Johansson said. Investigators previously believed Oakley was last seen alive on Jan. 27.

[...]

(The timeline continues through Dec 30, 2021 when Oakley's parents are scheduled to appear in court.)
 
DEC 29, 2021
Oakley Carlson missing: Timeline of her disappearance | king5.com
[...]

Detectives believe the circumstances surrounding the child's disappearance are suspicious and "criminal in nature."

[...]

Aug. 2017

Oakley is sent to live with foster parents, EH and JH. Oakley’s foster mom told KING 5 there were “multiple red flags” while the 5-year-old was in their care.

Oct. 2019

JH said the state contacted her and her husband that Oakley was going to be placed back in her parents’ care.

Nov. 2019

Oakley is returned to her biological parents, Andrew Carlson and Jordan Bowers.

Dec. 25, 2020

Oakley goes to her grandparents' home for Christmas with her family. During the investigation, Oakley’s grandmother told police Oakley “didn’t look well.” According to court documents, Oakley’s grandmother told police Oakley had dark circles under her eyes, pale skin and that she had scratches or sores on her face.

Oakley’s grandmother called Child Protective Services (CPS) after seeing Oakley, but never heard “anything about it after that time.” Court documents say Oakley’s grandmother contacting CPS regarding Oakley “made great waves within the family,” and Oakley’s parents have not spoken to or seen the grandparents since then.

Feb. 10, 2021

Oakley was last seen alive by someone “who is associated with the family,” Johansson said. Investigators previously believed Oakley was last seen alive on Jan. 27.

[...]

(The timeline continues through Dec 30, 2021 when Oakley's parents are scheduled to appear in court.)
waoooooo AC said "Oakley wont be coming back for a reunion..."
 
This hearing was on the abandonment charges for Oakley's sister. They could face up to 5 years in prison + $10,000 fine. Bail is set at $150k for each of them and they were both appointed attorneys. There is a stipulation that if either of them post bail, they are to go before the judge before being released. They are not allowed to communicate with each other either directly or via 3rd party. Both have failures to appear in court on prior charges. They admitted to relapsing and using Meth again. Neither showed any emotion. Next hearing is Jan 10th. It was mentioned that one of them reset their phone (likely in an attempt to hide evidence related to Oakley) 10 minutes after the police visited them at the hotel asking about Oakley.
ETA: the Detective did say that they will be able to recover what was on the phone, but it will take time. Hopefully there is something there that leads to Oakley and a conviction.
 
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This is a better article explaining the hearing today. Also, members of the community stood outside the courthouse and held signs in support of Oakley.

Charges Against Missing Oakville 5-Year-Old’s Parents Elevated to Felonies | The Daily Chronicle (chronline.com)


Cutting and pasting the article because there's a lot of info and I like the demonstrators signs and wanted to see them every time I open this thread for a day or two.


Charges Against Missing Oakville 5-Year-Old’s Parents Elevated to Felonies
Demonstrators Gather Outside Courthouse to Show Support for Oakley, Demand Justice

Demonstrators gather outside the Grays Harbor County Courthouse on Thursday morning in support of missing girl Oakley Carlson.
Jared Wenzelburger / jared@chronline.com

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Posted Thursday, December 30, 2021 12:19 pm
By Emily Fitzgerald / emily@chronline.com
A crowd of demonstrators gathered outside the Grays Harbor County Courthouse Thursday morning to show their support for Oakley Carlson, a missing 5-year-old Oakville girl, while her parents and suspects in her disappearance, Jordan Bowers and Andrew Carlson, had hearings inside on unrelated criminal charges.

Both Bowers and Carlson have been charged with second-degree abandonment of a dependent person, a Class C felony punishable by up to five years in prison and up to $10,000 in fines, for allegedly neglecting to give their 6-year-old daughter a prescribed medication for approximately 15 months.

Bowers and Carlson were taken into custody on Dec. 6 on suspicion of manslaughter, but after 72 hours with no manslaughter charges filed, those cases have been formally closed.

They were charged with second-degree abandonment of a dependent person on Dec. 10.

While their cases were initially filed as misdemeanor charges in Grays Harbor County District Court, both cases were elevated to felony charges about half an hour before their preliminary appearances were scheduled on Dec. 30.

Prosecuting Attorney Jason Walker argued for the court to maintain the $150,000 bail set for both defendants in district court.

“The reason for the bail is not necessarily the individual facts of this case with the current charge but … the facts leading to this charge. The police basically stumbled into it while investigating the disappearance of the 5-year-old child in this case, and that case is essentially one where the parents have tampered with evidence,” Nelson said during Bowers’ hearing.

Law enforcement became involved in Oakley’s disappearance on Dec. 5 when the principal at Oakville Elementary School contacted the Grays Harbor County Sheriff’s Office with concerns about Oakley’s safety, according to a detective’s report.

Principal Jessica Swift expressed concerns about Oakley’s wellbeing based on interactions she had with the 6-year-old and on the fact that she hadn’t seen Oakley when she had been in contact with the Carlson family helping them recover from a fire.

A Tumwater police officer was dispatched to conduct a welfare check on Oakley at the inn where her parents were staying, located within the 1600 block of Southwest Mottman Road, just before 10 a.m. on Dec. 6.

Bowers and Carlson spoke to the officer and gave multiple, inaccurate answers on where Oakley was, according to court documents.


Then, approximately 10 minutes after the officer left, one of the defendants ordered a factory reset on their cellphone, Walker said, adding that the ongoing investigation into Oakley’s disappearance has revealed other instances where people, presumably Bowers and Carlson, tampered with evidence.


Both defendants have also admitted to relapsing on methamphetamine, he said.

He later clarified that his intention with revealing the information about the previous investigation “was to indicate that ... the parents tampering with evidence in the previous investigation implicates that they could tamper with evidence in this case,” Nelson said.

Both defendants have prior warrants for their arrest on record for previous cases, which Grays Harbor Superior Court Judge Katherine Svoboda took as an indication the defendants would not voluntarily appear for hearings on this case if they were released.

That, along with the potential for the defendants to tamper with evidence, caused Svoboda concern.

“The court is holding them accountable for the charges that are currently filed, not for potential charges that may come as appropriate,” Svoboda said.

Svoboda approved Walker’s request to set bail at $150,000 each. Both defendants are scheduled to reappear for arraignment hearings on Monday, Jan. 1.

Detectives continue to seek information from anyone who may have seen Oakley, who the sheriff’s office now believes hasn’t been seen alive since Feb. 10, 2021, according to King 5 News.

Sheriff’s office personnel previously believed she was last seen alive on Jan. 27, 2021.

Bowers and Carlson claim the last time they saw Oakley alive was Nov. 30.

“The parents have given no indication that Oakley is in the care of an adult and cannot account for her whereabouts or condition,” said the Grays Harbor Sheriff’s Office in a news release. “Investigators believe Oakley would be unable to survive on her own for this length of time.”

Searches of the area surrounding the family's property in Oakville for Oakley’s body came up empty, according to the Grays Harbor County Sheriff’s Office.

Anyone with information that may be helpful in the case is advised to contact detectives by calling the sheriff’s office’s non-emergency number at 360-533-8765 or contacting Detective Sgt. Paul Logan at 360-964-1729 or sodetectives@co.grays-harbor.wa.us.



Timeline of Oakley’s Disappearance

• Nov. 2019: Oakley leaves the care of her foster parents and returns to her biological parents, according to King 5 News.

• Feb. 10, 2021: The last time detectives with the Grays Harbor County Sheriff’s Office can confirm Oakley was seen alive.

• Nov. 6, 2021: A fire was reported at the Carlson’s residence in Oakville just before 5 p.m. Andrew Carlson told dispatchers his 4-year-old (Oakley’s age at the time) had lit the couch on fire with a cigarette lighter and said he had put the fire out himself. Investigators later determined the fire most likely started in the microwave on the kitchen counter — not from the couch, as Carlson had claimed.

• Nov. 30, 2021: The date Oakley’s parents claim they last saw Oakley.

• Dec. 5, 2021: Oakville Elementary School Principal Jessica Swift contacts the Grays Harbor County Sheriff’s Office with concerns about Oakley’s safety.

• Dec. 6, 2021:

• Approximately 10 a.m. - An officer with the Tumwater Police Department initiates a welfare check for Oakley and interviews Oakley’s parents in their hotel room.

• 3:31 p.m.: An officer confirmed Bowers and Carlson left the hotel with their 2-year-old and returned to their Oakville residence.

• 5:10 p.m.: Bowers is booked into the Grays Harbor County Jail for allegedly obstructing an officer and on suspicion of manslaughter.

• 9:30 p.m.: Carlson is booked into the Grays Harbor County Jail on suspicion of manslaughter.

• Dec. 9, 2021: The 72-hour hold on suspicion of manslaughter expires, and the case is closed. Bowers and Carlson are charged with second-degree abandonment of a dependent person for allegedly neglecting to give their 6-year-old daughter a prescribed medication for approximately 15 months.

• Dec. 13: Detectives complete their search of the Carlson family’s house and surrounding property.
 
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Oakley’s grandmother contacting CPS regarding Oakley “made great waves within the family,” and Oakley’s parents have not spoken to or seen the grandparents since then.

I hope that Oakley's grandmother knows she absolutely did the right thing calling CPS. CPS failed Oakley, along with anyone who wanted to look the other way and didn't call CPS.
 
Surely the school should have been aware there were potential issues in the home? I don't know their connection or responsibility but if the school bus was cancelled that means that someone had to have done it (her parents?) and if so, why wasn't it questioned by school authorities? How long had it been since it stopped coming and where was poor Oakley supposed to be?
If she is 5, she is in kindergarten probably. Think of the last 2 years and the inconsistencies in schooling. Kids were remote, hybrid, pulled out entirely. Parents can also pull kids to be home schooled and then the public schools aren't really involved.

EBM: just saw that she had been in school as the principal reported her missing.
 
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