johnjay
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Hi Johnjay,
What if the parents had been given recommendations for therapy/counselling and they chose to ignore this?
Parents drop everything to attend to their children's needs - either physical or emotional. Did this not happen?
I just have a feeling that they could not bring themselves to be involved in family therapy or individual therapy because they were "so perfect". This makes me
so sad to type this because possibly this tragedy could have been avoided.
I understand what you are saying. Life is difficult sometimes. Difficult decisions can't always wait. I know that I do not have the answer but sometimes
in life we are given what seem like impossible choices.
I certainly don't want to come up with excuses for the Ramseys. I just know from my own family situations the lengths parents will go to making excuses for their children - even angry children who have shown violent and abusive behavior. It usually doesn't end in murder but it often ends up giving other children traumas they have to deal with for life. And I've seen therapists not recognize how bad the situation is.
How much does a child have to act out before drastic measures are taken? What should the parents have done to help Burke and protect JonBenet? The grand jury thought they should have done something. I wonder what?