For me it was the 31 days as well, on the true crime blog I usually post at, as soon as we read about the 31 days, right after KC got arrested, we knew she had killed her. It was obvious from her demeanor and the lies she told the cops. I know people criticize sometimes for people who automatically assume guilt before trial, and tell us that we should not be so quick to believe the "media", but I don't care. Anyone with common sense, looking at her demeanor, listening to her phone calls to her home from jail (that was also the clincher that made me realize I could not believe this woman was for real), and reading the police reports themselves (not just the media) could see what was going on. Not all cases am I so quick to assume guilt, but this one is different. She couldn't act more guilty if she tried....
God bless you Suzihawk, my son is 9, and I often think of what would happen to me if something like that happened to him. I am so so sorry, I have tears in my eyes thinking about what you have been through. Nothing anyone says will change anything, but please know that if you ever need anyone to talk to, I am here (and Im willing to wager everyone else on this board feels the same).