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    Still Missing CA - Orson & Orrin West (3&4), California City, 21 Dec 2020 #2

    It’s been several years since our last adoption was final, maybe things have changed. Subsidy was hardly anything, perhaps since it’s gone way up they’ve changed SSI access. MOO We never applied for anything extra because I was of the mindset “these are MY children and we will provide!”. Many...
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    Still Missing CA - Orson & Orrin West (3&4), California City, 21 Dec 2020 #2

    I’m in WA state and all of our adoptions (except one) were here. I have heard of many people who get both and never heard it was illegal. I know they get partials from SSI.
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    Still Missing CA - Orson & Orrin West (3&4), California City, 21 Dec 2020 #2

    April 2019, and they may have called them by the new names before then. If they knew it was headed to adoption. MOO
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    Still Missing CA - Orson & Orrin West (3&4), California City, 21 Dec 2020 #2

    Except was all that info out there within 45 minutes of them going missing?
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    Still Missing CA - Orson & Orrin West (3&4), California City, 21 Dec 2020 #2

    I don’t know much about CA, but generally (and this goes for all states), before an adoption is final a “contract” is entered into between parents. The adoptive family could have offered monthly supervised visits OR just yearly updates OR nothing at all... it’s really up to the adoptive parents...
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    Still Missing CA - Orson & Orrin West (3&4), California City, 21 Dec 2020 #2

    Unless the state did something fraudulent during the adoption process (not unheard of), it’s not going to fly. Grandparents can sue for rights before the adoption is final, and probably had many opportunities to be involved. So I’m not sure where all of this is coming from, but an adoption is a...
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    Still Missing CA - Orson & Orrin West (3&4), California City, 21 Dec 2020 #2

    This is so good to know ❤️ I have Irish “triplets”. A full sibling group of 3 we adopted, born within 2 years total. They adore eachother as teens!
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    Recovered/Located China - Jack Ma, 56, Alibaba billionaire, Missing For Months, Emerges from crackdown, Jan 2021

    Do we need a police report to bring this over to missing discussion or is the MSM sufficient in this case (moderators)?
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    Recovered/Located China - Jack Ma, 56, Alibaba billionaire, Missing For Months, Emerges from crackdown, Jan 2021

    I don’t think so. Perhaps with some “encouragement” from the Chinese government in the most painful of ways. This man didn’t just “take a break” for 3 months.
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    Recovered/Located China - Jack Ma, 56, Alibaba billionaire, Missing For Months, Emerges from crackdown, Jan 2021

    Wondering if this can be placed here or in missing discussion? What the Saga of Jack Ma Says About China Under Xi Jinping
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    Still Missing CA - Orson & Orrin West (3&4), California City, 21 Dec 2020

    Likewise, if the open adoption agreement is not kept by biological parents (no updated address, missing visits, etc), then the agreement is null and void. Facebook made it extremely easy for us to find bios and them to find us... which sucks because it should be up to the children. That said...
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    Still Missing CA - Orson & Orrin West (3&4), California City, 21 Dec 2020

    It sounds like she did have lots of support. Where were they when she was losing the children...?

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