Excellent post! This is how it is done. Kids don't say anything because they don't know what it means until it goes too far and by then they feel guilty and part of the "secret". Like they have done something wrong. There must be something wrong with them. Very sad.
With these types of cases it so often is a tragic ending. Not too many turn out the way we'd all like. She and all the others never deserved this. He waited at least a day too long to try to take his own life. Best he did it before he took another's.