Recent content by Proud2BeMe

True, they don't test for everything but they do test for a wide-variety of substances mostly found in OD and poisoning deaths. If Joey was murdered then it's highly unlikely it was done via poisoning, perhaps being roofied or "Cosby'd", but again the tox screens are geared to the usual drugs...

Gay guys don't have to douche before every encounter. However, they do need to check to see if they are clean and usually lube. This can be done discreetly in a stall. Yes, Joey might have just needed to use the restroom but if he was meeting a hook-up then he would have wanted to check to see...

The only problem is that there were no drugs found in his system at autopsy.

Wow. That last link was scary! I've heard of craig's list killers before but didn't know there already were serial killers on Grindr.

Botttoms have to make sure they are clean down there, douching and then lube. The claim that young gay men are very promiscuous is not controversial at all. Note that I didn't say every young gay man is promiscuous. Of course there are exceptions. Remember, these "gay dating apps" are really...

At no time here have I ever claimed to speak for Joey. At no time have I ever claimed to speak for the entire gay community. I am a gay man and I can assure you that nothing I wrote is controversial.

If it walks like a duck and quacks like one.....point being that everyone in the gay community knows what the apps are for. So it's extremely safe to assume that Joey was using the apps in the same fashion as the majority of people who use them. There's no shame in it. He wasn't in a committed...

I'm incredibly saddened to read this. If you read between the lines the police are practically admitting they know nothing. If they have to stoop to begging the person who was with him last to come forward then there really is no hope left. I feel so sorry for the family. I pray they have the...

Most one night stands involve interaction, talking, buying of drinks, etc. Gay tricks or hook ups usually don't involve any of that. Back in the day when most gays cruised for sex then most tricks were anonymous without each other knowing their names or even talking to each other for that...

Just wanted to explain some gay slang to people here. I noticed that a mod censored the word "trick" in a reply. In gay slang the word trick doesn't mean what it means for straights, as in regard to prostitution. In gay slang a trick is a hook up, a person you meet up with for quick sex. It's...