No, what was normal behavior for students in my fairly large east coast grad program doesn't mean all grad students are like the ones I knew. But I thought I made it clear I was voicing an opinion-- and opinions are very often based on personal experience. Certainly the post I was responding to contained that poster's opinions about what any grad student should be expected to do during a school break.What was normal for you in grad school doesn't necessarily make it normal for all grad students all over America. Jmo
Moo, I suppose he may have been planning to go back assuming other events didn't intervene in the interim, ie such as his arrest. Though I'd speculate he would have been pretty paranoid at this point, not to mention the issues he was having with his professor. Really there's not a lot to incentivise going back. Imo he more likely would have withdrawn or suspended his studies.
One thing, I don't believe he would have planned to take his Elantra back there. I guess he would also have to break it to his folks about losing his TA position. If the position was tied to subsidised accommodation at steptoe he would need to find an alternate apt and probably get his folks to help fund that and find a new job. Not saying accommodation was tied to his TA position, IDK. But a legitimate question would arise about being able to afford it imo.
So he knew he'd lost his TA even if folks didn't (ditto for having committed the crime jmo); he could have cleared out apt of most of his meagre student belongings and left the fire stick and tv as a token to his dad. To create a temporary impression of intending to return. Speculation.
Frankly it seems to me that we are tending to view just about anything BK did as pathological no matter how many other people may routinely do the same things (like driving instead of flying home for winter break or failing to leave electronics in an apartment that would be empty for weeks.) And yes, that's an opinion too.
MOO