Found Deceased AZ - John Euber, 67 & Jeffrey Euber, 34, Tucson, 18 Nov 2022 *father and son missing after going for a drive*

[Ears]

I can't shake the feeling that if Jeffrey wasn't autistic the tone of comments suspicious of "self harm" would be different and not sympathetic towards the parent.

 

[TootsieFootsie]

Autopsy conducted on Tucson father and son who were found dead last week

TUCSON (KVOA) — There are new developments in the case of a Tucson father and son, who were found dead last week on the city's east side.

www.kvoa.com

TUCSON (KVOA) — There are new developments in the case of a Tucson father and son, who were found dead last week on the city's east side.

Sheriff's officials tell News 4 Tucson, an autopsy was conducted Monday morning on 67-year-old John Euber and his son 34-year-old Jeff.

Jeff was considered a vulnerable adult, due to a developmental disability.

Investigators say there were no injuries to either father or son.

The sheriff's department is now waiting for toxicology results, which should take a month.

 

[charminglane]

Books

amaliastarr.com

I Have Autism…What’ll I Do Without You, Mom? How to Prepare for When Your Special Needs Child Outlives You ​

I helped Amalia edit this book for publication.
She designed a workbook for parents on how to get things in order for the care of their children when their parents are gone.

 

[katydid23]

I can't shake the feeling that if Jeffrey wasn't autistic the tone of comments suspicious of "self harm" would be different and not sympathetic towards the parent.

Probably, but it does make the situation different. Now that hubby and I are in our 70's, I do have to imagine that we will be leaving our grown children at some point, to make it without us. Since they are independent and doing well in their lives, we are not worried about them living on without us.

It would be very different if one of them was dependent upon us for their daily tasks and welfare though. It would be a big concern in that situation and I can understand why a parent might feel very sad and worried if they were the ones caring for their child every day and night. It would be very scary to imagine what would happen in the event they couldn't do so anymore.

Hopefully they would set things in motion to find a proper living arrangement in advance. Like a group home or a family member, etc.