• #6,101
Her hair being found is really throwing me off. Especially since multiple hairs were found and on different bodies.
It does, doesn't it? But LE has travel records that she and the children were out of the state for all 3 of the disappearances/deaths they are able to get travel info for. That throws another monkey wrench into the any usual pattern, doesn't it? I don't recall ever reading anything like hair and DNA from a recognizable, familial source like that before. Has anyone else? I recall (or think I recall) that Bittrolf was ID'd because his brother's DNA was in the system, but it was Bittrolf's DNA on the victim. Surely, this has happened before? Wouldn't RH's wife be in a world of trouble without the travel records?
 
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Her hair being found is really throwing me off. Especially since multiple hairs were found and on different bodies.
Most women shed a lot of hair. Maybe it's just more noticeable as our hair is generally longer than most male styles. Rex was likely oblivious to the fact that the wife's hair was in his vehicle, on his own clothes, etc. It is very easily transferred from one surface to another. Look around in your own vehicle, on your clothes, etc., and I'll bet you can find a hair or two at any given time.
 
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Her hair being found is really throwing me off. Especially since multiple hairs were found and on different bodies.
People do shed a lot, especially people with long hair. Mine's about two thirds of the way down my back, and I find it all over the place. I do wonder, though, whether with his wife out of the way, he used the home, and specifically the marital bed for his assignations with sex workers. I find a lot of my own hairs on my pillowcase.

MOO
 
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How reliable is Kolker?
I've not read the book.

Others have already mentioned that he is a very reliable/professional source, but I thought I’d also add here that he’s interviewed several times on the LISK: Long Island Serial Killer podcast. His interviews are very helpful and he seems very grounded in the known facts of the case. Not exploitative or saying anything for shock value.
 
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Her hair being found is really throwing me off. Especially since multiple hairs were found and on different bodies.
Just a possibility, the wife was into comic con. So maybe she’d dress up for these events. Maybe she had wigs and just maybe he asked other women to wear them. Or it’s as simple as the house was a cluttered pigsty and her hair was just incidentally transferred to other materials in the home- like fabric, tape, furniture etc.
 
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In reference to her hair being found on burlap/victim.

My hair is 2 feet long, I find my hairs all over the house, in his vehicle, on his clothes and have to cut it with scissors out of vacuum brush.

I have thought about the burlap and wondered if he bought it in bulk/roll. Could there have been some in the house or another one just like the ones they found.
 
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In reference to her hair being found on burlap/victim.

My hair is 2 feet long, I find my hairs all over the house, in his vehicle, on his clothes and have to cut it with scissors out of vacuum brush.

I have thought about the burlap and wondered if he bought it in bulk/roll. Could there have been some in the house or another one just like the ones they found.
Maybe burlap was occasionally used to protect the plants in the wife's greenhouse? speculation.
 
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Maybe burlap was occasionally used to protect the plants in the wife's greenhouse? speculation.
The burlap could have caused transfer as it picks up everything.
 
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*I’ve forgotten an important detail. Was it reported RH is a disorganized serial killer?

In contrast, the disorganized offender is likely to be of below average intelligence, low birth order, and subjected to harsh parental discipline. He is in a confused and distressed state of mind at the time of the murder, is socially inadequate, and sexually incompetent. The crime scene shows that the crime was committed suddenly with no set plan of action for deterring detection. Facial destruction and sexually sadistic acts performed after the murder are typical. Disorganized offenders usually leave the victim in the same position in which he or she was killed and make no attempt to conceal the body. Case examples and photographs are included

 
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*I’ve forgotten an important detail. Was it reported RH is a disorganized serial killer?

In contrast, the disorganized offender is likely to be of below average intelligence, low birth order, and subjected to harsh parental discipline. He is in a confused and distressed state of mind at the time of the murder, is socially inadequate, and sexually incompetent. The crime scene shows that the crime was committed suddenly with no set plan of action for deterring detection. Facial destruction and sexually sadistic acts performed after the murder are typical. Disorganized offenders usually leave the victim in the same position in which he or she was killed and make no attempt to conceal the body. Case examples and photographs are included



Should I be scared to open this link? might be too gruesome..I feel as though he is very organized..he has his various phones, he uses victim's phones, he conceals bodies in bramble in isolated location he keeps handcuffs in his workshop.
he kills when wife is on vaycay... at least for these four victims.

my feeling is he has another MO when he is not able to use his home for entertaining his victims.

With the Gilgo fourI think it starts by locating a girl, talking to her arranging things, then he goes into deep fantasy, ideation and anticipation mode...he probably knows or decides who will win his "affections" based on his sexual attraction to them...or perhaps there is a certain type of personality that he dislikes...and this coupled with attractive features triggers the whole
process of being groomed, stalked and murdered. Personally I think he makes elaborate plans and acts them out. Other times it is possible that he is disorganized. Like maybe if he abducts a woman he picks up on the street or from a park ..but I think they have consider that other victims were probably dealt with differently..murdered outside or in a vehicle with much less time to prepare and dispose. mOO
 
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Her hair being found is really throwing me off. Especially since multiple hairs were found and on different bodies.

^^^^ This. Yes, I’m cynical. I hope it is as LE says at this time.
 
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I’m with you. Should I be scared to open this link? might be too gruesome..I feel as though he is very organized..he has his various phones, he uses victim's phones, he conceals bodies in bramble in isolated location he keeps handcuffs in his workshop.
he kills when wife is on vaycay... at least for these four victims.

my feeling is he has another MO when he is not able to use his home for entertaining his victims.

With the Gilgo fourI think it starts by locating a girl, talking to her arranging things, then he goes into deep fantasy, ideation and anticipation mode...he probably knows or decides who will win his "affections" based on his sexual attraction to them...or perhaps there is a certain type of personality that he dislikes...and this coupled with attractive features triggers the whole
process of being groomed, stalked and murdered. Personally I think he makes elaborate plans and acts them out. Other times it is possible that he is disorganized. Like maybe if he abducts a woman he picks up on the street or from a park ..but I think they have consider that other victims were probably dealt with differently..murdered outside or in a vehicle with much less time to prepare and dispose. mOO
See, I think so too. That’s why I asked. I had thought I’d read that with his hoarding he must be a disorganized but the more I read, the more organized I think he is. Could he be a blend?
 
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Based on historical patterns, organized killers are likely to be above average to average intelligence, attractive, married or living with a domestic partner, employed, educated, skilled, orderly, cunning and controlled. They have some degree of social grace, may even be charming, and often talk and seduce their victims into being captured.

With organized offenders, there are typically three separate crime scenes: where the victim was approached by the killer, where the victim was killed, and where the victim’s body was disposed of. Organized killers are very difficult to apprehend because they go to inordinate lengths to cover their tracks and often are forensically savvy, meaning they are familiar with police investigation methods. They are likely to follow the news media reports of their crimes and may even correspond with the news media. Ted Bundy, Joel Rifkin, and Dennis Rader are prime examples of organized killers
 
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Her hair being found is really throwing me off. Especially since multiple hairs were found and on different bodies.
One day i am going to look for or try to start a thread specifically concerning hair as it relates to crime, but meanwhile..
Not saying this is likely in any shape or form, all hair transfer probably from the home etc, but wondering if the use of hair played any role in the alleged (RH) perp's fantasies? speculation, fwiw, imo.
Noting this fetish..

''Danilo Restivo is accused of bludgeoning to death Heather Barnett, who was found with another person's hair in her hand''
rbbm
 
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One day i am going to look for or try to start a thread specifically concerning hair as it relates to crime, but meanwhile..
Not saying this is likely in any shape or form, all hair transfer probably from the home etc, but wondering if the use of hair played any role in the alleged (RH) perp's fantasies? speculation, fwiw, imo.
Noting this fetish..

''Danilo Restivo is accused of bludgeoning to death Heather Barnett, who was found with another person's hair in her hand''
rbbm
‘I’ve thought of that before. Somewhere in these threads I asked if ’hair’ was his ‘tell’. You know like poker players, unknowingly twitch one eye when they’re bluffing, or Idk how to explain it. I’m confused now with all the girls but I thought that around the time msm was talking about a redhead and I thought about his collecting hobbies, that he might have intentionally went after her.
*eta: his ‘tell’ meaning that would be what would get him caught, something about the hair out of place where someone would notice something, maybe like his wife asked him something about a hair, maybe he was being recorded when he replied. I’m sorry, I just don’t know how to put my thoughts into words right now.
 
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Others have already mentioned that he is a very reliable/professional source, but I thought I’d also add here that he’s interviewed several times on the LISK: Long Island Serial Killer podcast. His interviews are very helpful and he seems very grounded in the known facts of the case. Not exploitative or saying anything for shock value.

Quoting myself because I can no longer edit the original:

This podcast also has an episode that has the full recording of Shannan Gilbert’s 911 call, with some analysis.

(This is not my podcast/I’m not “promoting” it, I didn’t know it existed until about three weeks ago.)
 
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*I’ve forgotten an important detail. Was it reported RH is a disorganized serial killer?

In contrast, the disorganized offender is likely to be of below average intelligence, low birth order, and subjected to harsh parental discipline. He is in a confused and distressed state of mind at the time of the murder, is socially inadequate, and sexually incompetent. The crime scene shows that the crime was committed suddenly with no set plan of action for deterring detection. Facial destruction and sexually sadistic acts performed after the murder are typical. Disorganized offenders usually leave the victim in the same position in which he or she was killed and make no attempt to conceal the body. Case examples and photographs are included

That was an interesting read!
 
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^^^^ This. Yes, I’m cynical. I hope it is as LE says at this time.
I'm not cynical about it; it's in their probably cause affadavit. They've sworn to it.
 
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Financial abuse and coercive control are real and hideous. Yet I see no evidence that AE wants out of the house. So I don't see any reason to assume the problem is that she can't.

Just wanted to clarify that I'm not citing financial abuse as the reason AE is now continuing to live in the house, but rather a possible explanation why she and the kids had to sleep in a vehicle rather than a motel during the investigation of the house.

Your possible reasons why they are remaining in the house now that they are allowed back in all seem extremely plausible.
 

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