I agree that AE and family need to be careful about the focus on them and the condition of the house, but I suspect their attorney has advised them not to speak publicly about the victims and the case against her husband.
They have been thrust into the spotlight through no fault of their own, and can't be expected to know how to deal with the situation, especially so quickly.
AE, seems to me has led a very private life, like many with a sick or disabled child. When families have a child that’s different, often that family finds themselves isolated because they don’t “fit in”. Ok to say hi on the street, but don’t get invited to the bbq.
From experience, I understand that often, mom sacrifices nearly everything to support, nurture and advocate for her child in the hopes they can live independently as an adult. Then, she finds the caregiving is her lifelong unpaid career and the worries continue - how will my adult child survive when I’m gone.
Also she might have wanted to leave a relationship but financially maybe she cannot because she can’t afford GOOD care for her adult child and go back to work. This man is not her child’s bio dad and wouldn’t likely pay support.
Her needs are small, food, shelter, medical care. All she wanted was her house in livable condition - beds, a sink where water goes down the drain and not into the floor. I think she is saying, in a small voice, I don’t want anything. Just what I had before which wasn’t much.
AE not knowing who to trust - maybe wanting to accept help to clear her house and realising that people might help and then sell RH souvenirs - RH water bill, RH Xmas ornament, RH socks …. Really, any trash would need to be burned or shredded to prevent tabloids and ghouls from relishing the misery of his discards.
I see her more as a mum of a young man who needs her and she wants a return to their routine and feelings of safety and privacy. She is getting support from her lawyer / advocate and he just telling her status: she has cancer and is worried about paying (normal emotion), an overwhelmingly unlivable home which needs fixing and that the salacious news isn’t true. It was just her doll, end of story. Just her ordinary facts.
I hope the tabloids leave her alone.