investigators say they have a verified sighting of Hayden by someone other than his father on January 11, 2020.
BOY, 4, VANISHES 5 YEARS AGO WITHOUT FAMILY REALIZING: WHERE’S HAYDEN
rough timeline:
2016 1 year old Hayden's parents, Dustin Mains and Terry Williams, lose custody of Hayden because of their drug addictions. Paternal grandfather, Gary (PawPaw) Manis, is given custody of Hayden.
2017 or 2018 - a year and a half after PawPaw got custody Dustin completed drug treatment and court order probation and Hayden was returned to him over PawPaw's strenuous objections.
2018 (after Dustin regained custody) through Christmas 2019 - family saw Hayden and Dustin pretty frequently for visits, despite the fact that Gary (PawPaw) and Dustin had fought/argued.
Christmas Eve 2019 Hayden was seen by multiple family members at a gathering. Hayden appeared well and was excited to open gifts.
2020 - 2021 Nobody in the family sees Hayden or Dustin. Dustin responds to text messages claiming all is well, he is just very busy. Turns down repeated invitations to get together with family.
August 2021 He texts family member that he has moved out of town, shortly after that texts Dustin stops responding to family altogether.
2023 family member (aunt Barbara) has continued to reach out occasionally to Dustin and finally receives a response in May of 2023
May 18, 2023 Dustin responds to Barb with
"Hey aunt barb I promise on everything all is well i promise uve just been having a lot going on try to work on my family that I am making and what not I appreciate u reaching out and checking but I'm just doing what I promised my mom id do when she was on here death bed and that was look out for what make me happy and doing what ever it may be to keep my self happy I'm doing good and I'm doing right and I'm working on making the family I've alwAy wamted"
???? two great grandmothers bump into one another at the grocery. They discuss Hayden and realize both sides of the family have been given differing stories about where is Hayden. Alarm bells go off as the family sees pieces of the puzzle don't fit. They go to PawPaw who immediately contacts CPS.
September 7 2024 Hayden's mother posts a public post to her FB which is linked in articles. She says her son is missing and her ex claims to no longer have him.
November 2024 - LE locates Dustin but not Hayden. Dustin spins a yarn about how CPS came to his door in 2022 and took Hayden from him to return to Hayden's mother. No evidence or record supports this claim. During a traffic stop Dustin was found to be in possession of both heroin and meth and he was arrested.
December 15 2024 four days after being bonded out of jail by one of his grandmothers Dustin dies of a drug overdose.
Two prior residences of Dustin Manis have been investigated but no leads came of it. One of those residences was one he shared with an ex girlfriend and her children. Hayden was reported to have lived there with the couple and her children. She has since moved out of state. LE says she is cooperating with their investigation.
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