Well, we don't need to start making this personal
Let me ask you a logic question:
Which of the following fathers is more likely to have intentionally murdered his 2-year-old son:
Father #1: The child was an accident, and F1 was not ready for children. After the child's birth, F1 did not participate in any of the child rearing. When left alone with the child F1 locked the child in his room alone while he went across the street to drink beer and play horseshoes with the neighbor. F1 refused to go anywhere in public with his son and F1 often yelled at the child for causing messes and crying. F1 was cheating on his wife and sexting minors.
Father #2: F2 and his wife wanted a child and tried for a year before she got pregnant. F3 participated in every aspect of child rearing - from changing diapers to bathing to bedtime routines. F2 made a point of having special daddy/son time with his child 2 or 3 times a month. F2 took his son to restaurants, baseball games and other family activities. F2 bragged about and talked about his son constantly. Everyone who knew F2 and his child agreed that F2 loved his son very much and was a good and attentive father. F2 was cheating on his wife and sexting minors.