Regarding potentially unseemly pictures passed between AJ and Texty... it's possible they exist, even without a current relationship between the two of them. AJ strikes me as a well rounded, wholesome kind of girl, but some of the things kids do these days without batting an eyelash shocks the heck out of me. 'Harmless flirting' nowadays... ain't what it used to be.
I think they know so much, and someday soon we are going to get more information than we can process without reeling. LE thought she was beyond help very early (one of the few things I think WE was truthful about), there has to be a reason for that that we're not yet privy to.Thanks, y'all. Yes, it is frustrating to only be able to speculate. I just keep telling myself that LE knows the answer to many (or most?) of these questions. This is my only comfort!
Thanks, y'all. Yes, it is frustrating to only be able to speculate. I just keep telling myself that LE knows the answer to many (or most?) of these questions. This is my only comfort!
As being a product of a dysfunctional emotional abusive, domestic violence environment your insight is 100% correct. Thanks for joining us ALL of your posts have really been informativeExactlywhat I was thinking. It's not unusual for a child from a dysfunctional household to seek love and acceptance elsewhere, and you're right that casual intimacy is no longer the taboo it once was. As an aside, it's also not unusual for a child from a dysfunctional household to be an overachiever and a "perfect" child. Such accomplishments do not mean that there is no suffering beneath the surface, however, nor that whatever issues plague the family have been reconciled and processed in an emotionally healthy and sustainable manner. We really don't know how the instability of AJ's home life affected her, and we probably never will. She put on a brave face and obviously had a big heart and sweet spirit, but she could have been suffering greatly inside. ALL my opinion.
As being a product of a dysfunctional emotional abusive, domestic violence environment your insight is 100% correct. Thanks for joining us ALL of your posts have really been informative
There was nothing goin on with AJ and 'Texty' as you guys call him. He was an ex but that was years ago. He was the one that AJ's cousin spoke of her being leery of because of his somewhat obsessive actions over the years. Just thought I would clear that up.
Give it a little bit......:stop:
We have one verified insider in this case. Anyone else who would like to be verified can do so here http://www.websleuths.com/forums/sh...n-Process-for-Professional-or-Insider-Posters.
Gossip and second hand information is exactly that, and is against the rules.
(Not a mod, just a poster...blah blah blah.)
There was nothing goin on with AJ and 'Texty' as you guys call him. He was an ex but that was years ago. He was the one that AJ's cousin spoke of her being leery of because of his somewhat obsessive actions over the years. Just thought I would clear that up.
Give it a little bit......
I do understand. I was mentioned in these threads long before I even knew about websleuths, due to my clarification of truth in certain 'speculation' on SM... And as I am new here, there are just some things that If I don't comment I will lose in the thread.. lol.Okay. And can you just hold off a bit too, while you're waiting? I do appreciate your posts, and I look forward to what you have to say, I'm just trying to keep us all on track here.
ETA: We have had other "insiders" here who relayed info while awaiting verification, and then couldn't or wouldn't finish the verification process. I'm just trying to avoid a repeat of that. Hope you understand.
I think he is crying over his own horrid mistakes. His tears are real because he is looking at Life in Prison, imo.
I just want to know WHY this happened...whatever it was that actually happened. Why is this beautiful, precious girl, who had her whole life ahead of her, just...gone?
(Man, I need a breather.)