Hiya Cubby....I had just came in on the tail end of the first drama....and was not referring to that, I was referring to something more recent....I totally agree and understand talking about this stuff turns people off and I won't ever bring up this stuff again.
It is not that simple. This is not a game, (not saying you think so, trying to make a point)...all of the people involved, FDF, his family, friends, etc, are not characters in a good mystery, they are human beings (well, FDF, not so sure), anyhow....
this is an investigation, and in a PROPER investigation you have a lead investigator then people under that person who all work together to solve a case. Imagine a police dept, and there are 3 rooms, in each room is 7 different investigators, all working on finding the identity of a young girl....they are all working it out in their own ways, following leads...they discover there is a witness to something, room 1 finds this person and goes to interview them, a few hours later this witness has a knock on the door, another investigator, wanting to interview them, another hour and another investigator shows up....get what I'm saying??? We can't be ALL be running around like idiots calling people, writing people, interviewing people, trying to get her story on the news, makes sense? Maybe am I wrong, I don't know.
Back to the case, which I would enjoy discussing, (I don't believe I am willing to physically participate in this investigation any longer, but I'm all for discussing and watching you all do yer thing
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Previously, I had seriously considered getting a PO box as our other 'friend' did and her and I had discussed me doing this, coming up with another identity to try and pick his brain. He is talking, just not what we want to hear....he knows what that particular writer is after, I believe someone should come in from another angle, maybe more than one? :twocents: