SleuthyMama
Listening to my gut
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I can see both sides here regarding who may have provided help (if any).
My first thoughts also go to the GF.
Something about the tone of her Myspace posts gives me the feeling that she may have worn the pants in the relationship, or at least thought she did. How she mentions RC is naive and trusting...almost like she has to lead him by the hand through this world to make sure he gets by unscathed. I think being in the relationship and making sure the rest of the world thought it was intact and fully functioning was of high priority to her.
But, on the other hand, if it was her who reported him to the police about coming home w/ scratches and in different clothes, then my theory doesn't make sense. In that case, then the next logical person to me would be the BIL.
My first thoughts also go to the GF.
Something about the tone of her Myspace posts gives me the feeling that she may have worn the pants in the relationship, or at least thought she did. How she mentions RC is naive and trusting...almost like she has to lead him by the hand through this world to make sure he gets by unscathed. I think being in the relationship and making sure the rest of the world thought it was intact and fully functioning was of high priority to her.
But, on the other hand, if it was her who reported him to the police about coming home w/ scratches and in different clothes, then my theory doesn't make sense. In that case, then the next logical person to me would be the BIL.