This is my first post here. I read and lurk daily. Rosco , the story of your father and step-mother has touched me. I myself am a step-parent to two young girls, and I know that it is a tough job for me. I just had to say that Darleen must have been a wonderful, wonderful, stepmother to have such a caring, compassionate daughter like you. Each and every post you write makes it very clear that you loved both your father and her very much. Sounds like more steparents should be as great to their loved ones children as she was to you.
My condolences go out to you, your family, your sister and brother and their families. I truly believe hard work, perserverance ,and love always pay off in the end. I check this thread daily because I know in my heart you will find the answers you are seeking! Also if "A" is not guilty, then I will be shocked!
April