3doglady
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I agree that people can respond very differently to bad news.
I'm not schooled in psychiatry or anything, but don't people usually go through certain "stages" in a situation like this? After the initial shock, I would think his first reaction would be one of denial. Did he not appear to go straight to "acceptance"?
To me, his reaction and behavior throughout those interviews just doesn't "feel right".
And remember, he was not informed his roommate was "brutally murdered".
He was informed that they recovered a body from the "parking lot area".
An area which he just got through searching with her friends just hours before,
looking for clues as to her disappearance.
I just can't see how, given the circumstances, anyone's initial reaction to the reporter's statement wouldn't be "What? Where?"
I agree with Physcomom's post at the top of this page. I've seen people get sick when they see an animal that they've never seen before injured. I've seen people react exactly the way SM did at the mere sight of blood. (My brother for one.) I seen people almost faint when told a neighbor had a heart attack. We're all different. How can anyone think to ask, "What,where?" when the blood rushes out of your head and you can't breath? Most people don't act normal during a time of extreme stress because it's not a normal situation. The fact that LG was missing and a body was found close by constitute extreme distress. The last article posted said the tenant wanted BB to stay with him while he packed so I'm assuming that tenant also had a strong reaction to LG's death. If SM hadn't had a reaction, now I would call that weird. Most people when faced with an inexplicable horror want to talk about it, want to explain it, want to find answers. We think if you can explain it or find answers, maybe it won't be as horrible. We need human contact at times of extreme stress. Earlier a poster said that LG's friends did not talk to reporters, they talked to friends and family. SM had no one close by to talk to that we know of other than the reporter.