I wonder if Joan and/or her son will come back for the sentencing. That will be her chance (finally!) to tell people about her wonderful daughter, who was evidently well-liked by the friends she had (before Gittany curtailed that), and well-loved by her family .. a gorgeous, fun-loving, happy, cheeky girl, by all accounts.
Maybe Joan can appear by video-link or video recording if she can't make the long haul back again. I'm sure it must be costing her a fortune to travel back and forth, and stay so far from home. I hope she has been able to get some assistance from Victims of Crime.
From my understanding you can submit a written statement and nominate a person to read it.
They do have a trustworthy advocate for Lisa in Michelle Richmond, and I can see them using her rather than being here.
The trial was exceptionally painful for Joan - understandably so. She didn't remain in the room for the bulk of the verdict.
Looking at the killers who are sentenced to life without parole - I'm just not sure that SG will get that punishment..... Its not my opinion that he deserves less, just the track record of the justice system.
And I don't imagine how, as a family member, you could want anything less than the maximum. And I can't imagine the hurt and betrayal any lesser sentence would deliver when someone has been murdered.
Back in 1995, two of my family members were killed in a car accident, and one was left with a lifetime severe disability. The driver at fault was a firefighter, returning home from battling unseasonably severe and early fires. No BAC sample was taken at the scene. He admitted to one beer, and being fatigued, possibly having a 'microsleep' behind the wheel.
He was found guilty of negligent driving occasioning death x2 and grevious bodily harm. He didn't do a day behind bars. The sentence was small, and suspended completely.
In our grief, "Guilty" was a salve. A soothing ointment. Something to put the anger away.
The sentence tore things open completely for me personally - the wound was worse. How can he be guilty but free? How can he go back to normal life when lives were irrecoverably changed?
My mother is an amazing woman, and she took it the best - challenging my rage and asking me what sentence would have been enough? I couldn't answer that. Life - but no, not even murders get life..... 5 years? 10 years? What sentence would make me feel better? There wasn't a number. Loss is too hard to quantify.
Anger mellowed over time. The driver's son died in a fatal car accident that wasn't his fault a few years later. The link was published in the reporting of the accident - headlines like "fatal crash driver loses son in car accident."
I thought I'd feel vindicated. Instead I just felt so terrible desolate and sad.
There was a time when I wished that he would know what it was like. That he would know what we were going through. And then he did - and that punishment was more than I would have wanted.... considering the circumstances, considering - above all, it was an accident..... I hated myself for having ever had that thought.
I've digressed, and I know that intentional taking of a life is vastly different to a crash. I just was trying to say, I know first hand how devastating t a sentence coming out can be - especially when you feel it's less than the person deserves.
I'm hopeful for harsh punishment for SG, especially because he has not been a solid contributing member of society - he has had numerous chances and received numerous lenient sentences in the past... all of which he has disregarded.
But then I compare him to other sentencing, and as despicable and (more words I wont say lest Marly have to send me to the naughty corner..... ) I don't think the outcome will be as great as I hope.
I just think, if it was me, I wouldn't be able to handle being there. Because here - where it's murder - the answer to my mother's question is easier. He chose to take a life. The judge should take away his freedom for life.