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Who thought it was a good idea to hire a sex offender to do maintenance in the building? The mind boggles.
To save $$$ most places do.
Who thought it was a good idea to hire a sex offender to do maintenance in the building? The mind boggles.
@LifeIsAMystery : Thanks for the link; explains a lot.
I read about this case at the Daily Mail (links below) and was wondering why she opened the door for him ?
Pava LaPere was dead 'within 36 minutes of arriving home'
New court documents seen by The Messenger shows that Jason Billingsley, the suspect in her murder, was in her apartment building for less than 36 minutes.www.dailymail.co.uk
Poor Pava, may she rest in peace !
Photos show charred basement where Jason Billingsley may have attacked
Jason Billingsley, 32, was apprehended on Wednesday by Baltimore cops at a train station around 30 miles from where Pava LaPere, 26, was found bludgeoned to death.www.dailymail.co.uk
Jason Billingsley rape victim speaks on assault slams justice system
Ann Marie Neeper, 35, bravely agreed to speak to DailyMail.com about her horrific assault at the hands of Jason Billingsley after he was charged with Pava LaPere's murder.www.dailymail.co.uk
This sickening monster should not have been walking freely at all !
Omo.
IMO, many women are more concerned with hurting a man's feelings, than keeping themselves safe. Believe me, sister, a man's feelings will mend far easier than your physical woundsAsk your friends if would they open the door for a stranger. You'd be shocked how many would without a second thought.
I have adult female friends who said they would without thinking twice, to be a good neighbor, to be helpful. I was told that NOT doing so is considered RUDE and PARANOID.
I have a female friend who told me violent crimes are rare and that I was insane to assume everyone is potentially dangerous...so ask your friends and see what they say.
I think the message is lost that the perp might very well use charm and polite manners to gain control. The bad guy isn't necessarily going to snarl or have shifty eyes to give warning.IMO, many women are more concerned with hurting a man's feelings, than keeping themselves safe. Believe me, sister, a man's feelings will mend far easier than your physical wounds
I think women should stand up for their own and other women's safety, and any decent man will understand that.
JMO
I don't think in this instance her decision to let him in the building had anything to do with hurting a man's feelings. I think she was a good and decent person who could never imagine the man standing behind her had bad intentions: it would not occur to her- she was a trusting and naieve individual and sadly she paid a terrible price.IMO, many women are more concerned with hurting a man's feelings, than keeping themselves safe. Believe me, sister, a man's feelings will mend far easier than your physical wounds
I think women should stand up for their own and other women's safety, and any decent man will understand that.
JMO
Yes, I was responding to women in general being uncomfortable, not to this case specifically. Apologies.I don't think in this instance her decision to let him in the building had anything to do with hurting a man's feelings. I think she was a good and decent person who could never imagine the man standing behind her had bad intentions: it would not occur to her- she was a trusting and naieve individual and sadly she paid a terrible price.
That's exactly what I mean.I think the message is lost that the perp might very well use charm and polite manners to gain control. The bad guy isn't necessarily going to snarl or have shifty eyes to give warning.
jmo
Many years ago I lived in a high rise and to the best of my recall I probably let in people who were behind me who probably didn't belong in the building. Sometimes we just do something stupid- without thinking----Sad case. And, it definitely seems that if PL hadn't let this perp. in to the building, she would probably still be alive. Though this is incredibly tragic, it's good that the video cameras caught the perp. & basically "told the story" of what happened - which obviously made the investigators job a lot easier.
I've never lived in an apt. complex like the one that the victim lived in (with keys that you need to use to get into the building, etc.). But, I agree 100% that every resident of one of these places should not let people in that they don't know. If you live there & you forget your keys, it's on you. If someone is upset about this, tough. Look what "being nice" gets you. In this case, it cost PL her life.
I have been in situations where I haven't opened doors/gates for people that I don't know. Again, if you don't have a key - it's on you.
I don't think in this instance her decision to let him in the building had anything to do with hurting a man's feelings. I think she was a good and decent person who could never imagine the man standing behind her had bad intentions: it would not occur to her- she was a trusting and naieve individual and sadly she paid a terrible price.
It was indicated at the press conference by LE, that is why they did not think he posed a danger to the public at large.was that in MSM, that they were known to each other?
Delivery people, pizza guy, Door Dash, all can be followed in, or in an incident in my city, a food delivery guy used that access to case a building. He then accessed keys and robbed apartments, a package room and a car from the garage to transport loot. When the front desk person saw the video the next day, he recognized the guy immediately. Most buildings do not have 24/7 staff watching cameras or security that walks the building, so cameras just capture what did happen but don't add much safety.Many years ago I lived in a high rise and to the best of my recall I probably let in people who were behind me who probably didn't belong in the building. Sometimes we just do something stupid- without thinking----
He was not, his clothes from the video were described in the charging docs.and if he was wearing a maintenance outfit she'd think he had a legal right to access the building, right?
It was indicated at the press conference by LE, that is why they did not think he posed a danger to the public at large.
I agree. I don’t care if he was their former BFF; the horrendous brutality and nature of that crime was more than enough reason to warn the community.oh man
huge mistake
Basic background checks (including for Sex Offenses) are relatively inexpensive. Per this site they could have done a basic check for as little as $25.To save $$$ most places do.
and with his history - he raped a stranger that he met on the street for oneI agree. I don’t care if he was their former BFF; the horrendous brutality and nature of that crime was more than enough reason to warn the community.
Basic background checks (including for Sex Offenses) are relatively inexpensive. Per this site they could have done a basic check for as little as $25.
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It's mind boggling to think that $25 might have saved such a tragedy on Edmonton Street.
JMO