Until parents are held responsible for their kids, nothing will change. Until parents are held responsible for their part in valuing education, respecting adults, teachers and laws, nothing will change.
Appropriate behavior starts at home. Until the correct person is held responsible- instead of it always being someone else's fault and someone else's problem- nothing will change.
You can have great teachers, great mentors, free lunch and free computers- if the home is corrupt- it corrupts everything.
Charity and programs need to be a hand up- not a hand out. Welfare was never supposed to be lived on for an extended period of time. In some families, there are 4 generations on welfare. People are not marrying and having more children to stay on the dole.
Personal Responsibility seems to be dead in some parts of this country.
That is exactly what I was saying in an earlier post. If the perps are too young to be tried as an adult for murder or other serious crimes, then obviously the responsibility falls largely on the parents and hence it's the parents who need to answer questions.
We need to have a protocol set up for this.
We are seeing more and more violence from our youth.
And society (not the parents) are paying the price.
Maybe better and more involved parenting would occur if there was a party they had to answer to when their child committed a crime?
Maybe there should be progressive steps involved: starting with reporting of nefarious activities to a central agency, structured counseling, confinement if aggression continues, rehabilitation efforts, fines, penalties, and maybe as we "progress", even prison time if egregious neglect of parental duties results in putting society at large in harm's way.
'Just thinking out loud 'cause I'm sick of parents that think they don't have much ado with the progression of building the character within a child so that he/she becomes a constructive, productive part of our society.
Also, I'm very tired of parents that defend their child despite their horrific actions.