My understanding is that pedophiles have many ways of choosing victims, and among the things they look for are inattentive parents, resentful parents, and kids who are already somewhat conditioned to sexual abuse or knowledge of it due to it having happened in their own families. And it's something to shudder about, all right.
Exactly. And they network.
Which is why the alleged MFH plot, or TH's sexting anyone, after Kyron was missing, has nothing to do with the chances of a pedophile having taken him. Why? Because all those things occurred *after* he was taken, and the pedophile, unless he could see the future, would have no knowledge of that, and therefore wouldn't be saying "hmmmm....stepmother sexts..." etc.
And I truly think that the Horman home was one with a lot of tension, fighting, and problems. Even KH acknowledged that, although he said they'd worked through their problems in a "positive" fashion.
When I saw the first press conference, I immediately said to myself: "Uh oh. That marriage is in bad shape. If they aren't already thinking about divorce, it's headed that way." There were so many clues. And there's one still photo in particular that tells the whole story. Plus some microexpressions and body langauge. JMO, of course.
In my opinion, KH had been figuring out a way to get out and keep his kids for quite awhile. DY's restraining order against him during their divorce said she was afraid he'd take the children, plural. But only one was his, and I found that "children" significant. Instead of saying "his child" or "our child."
And I also find it significant that KH had only his name on the house. If he put TH's Mustang in her name, or in both their names, that may be the only thing she owned after all these years. He had the income, and he had the house, and he had all the power, IMHO.
Given all that, and later on his allegations of TH drinking, and also TH being depressed, and then the pressures of a multi-parent situation and all the driving to and fro, to me creates a situation with a stressed family life.
And yes, pedophiles can pick up on kids in distressing situations. And if the perp is someone who knows the Hormans, that factor could have been part of the choosing.
Pedophiles teach each other how to fine-tune their radar to pick out a child with any distress, stress, or unhappiness in their lives that makes them more vulnerable than another child. And given, per KH, that they'd been working with Kyron on making sure he obeyed adults in school, he would have been easily led somewhere.
Pedophiles make me....beyond angry.