I want to talk more about Pistorius behavior, what he said about his actions on the night as well as his manner on the stand (thanks for the link to the editor who reports they heard he took 'acting' classes). Especially in regard to narcissism, fame and insecurity. I think it's fascinating but can only write occasionally though I try to keep up ☺:
We couldn’t see his reactions on television and this profiler was in court and states there was a divide between his emotional and physical reactions. Just to be clear, if you actually feeling the emotions and are crying your body’s involuntary physical reactions should match up with the facial or verbal actions, it's acting more than reacting.
Criminologist Laurie Pieters on the Oscar Channel
http://oscartrial.dstv.com/video/512794/category/0
Dr Mitch Abrams Sports Pyschology on ‘Athletes and Violence’
DR. MITCH ABRAMS - Pistorius Sport Psychology interview - YouTube
We couldn’t see his reactions on television and this profiler was in court and states there was a divide between his emotional and physical reactions. Just to be clear, if you actually feeling the emotions and are crying your body’s involuntary physical reactions should match up with the facial or verbal actions, it's acting more than reacting.
Criminologist Laurie Pieters on the Oscar Channel
http://oscartrial.dstv.com/video/512794/category/0
It quite clear that he’s using emotions as a decoy: You know every time things get rough for Mr. Pistorius he cries or he vomits or he covers his head.
On the stand it was very very interesting when things because difficult he spoke in a whining, irritated crying voice. And what I didn’t see, in the beginning it was there but at the end what I didn’t see was the accompanying physiological reactions.
There was no nose running which you would expect when someone is crying. There were no tears there was no excess swallowing. All the associated physiological reactions were not apparent to me.
Dr Mitch Abrams Sports Pyschology on ‘Athletes and Violence’
DR. MITCH ABRAMS - Pistorius Sport Psychology interview - YouTube
It’s the celebrity status that makes it so difficult. The psychological toll and the skills that are necessary that are needed to manage that are tremendous.
There are some people that can really go to hell and a hand basket so to say. There have been some quotes about Pistorius and his focus has always been on what he can do - not what he can not do. He’s not to going to be limited by his disabilities...but one could argue that that sort of approach if the one that will let them believe that they can do anything. There’s no laws or rules that limit what they can and cannot do.
If you’re a competitive athlete and you beat people, you’re going to start to believe that you’re better than everyone else. I believe very strongly that narcissism is a natural consequence of chronic winning.
Why wouldn’t you think you could react in whatever way you want when people think you are a god?
One has to wonder if that confidence, that narcissism that we see in an elite athlete, and in Pistorius in particular, if it’s real or it’s compensatory?
...That inside their very fragile. Now if that’s the case, if they are fragile-ego type men then there going to be susceptible to slights that they think might be a challenge to their manhood.