Ilana
Verified family - Tatjana Tarasovna Lupach case
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Thanks for all you have shared, I think you have done well preparing to update NAMUS, contacting police in New York, submitting your DNA and connecting with supportive people through the Facebook page you created for your Mother. You have mentioned there may be a possibility that your Mother has memory difficulties ... that she may have lost memory of her family... if this did happen she may have needed help in her day to day life and become connected with a community or agency that would provide life skills, shelter, medical care, social and recreational activities ... it might be helpful to look for those types of services in New York.
Dear Jaanniss, thanks for your reply and for your advice.
I think she's been promised something and then she was deceived, and then once she realized that she's been deceived, after a major stress she could possibly loose her memory as she was very emotional. I would be happy to check out all the shelters, medical care centers and other places you've mentioned - is there any list of this places I can find and go through them, or database I can use, or I just have to search this places one by one in google? (Sorry, I just have never been in USA and don't know the system, and also feel a bit lost cos I never did anything like this before).
Looks like my mom definitely had some plan, as my mothers childhood friend said that the day before she's got missing, my mom told her that she's been offered an administrator job position in Miami, and that she has to go there, and once she's there, she will call her friend again to give her address where she'll stay. However, she's mention that she will be back in one week time.
Early morning January 24th she's called her mother to say Happy Birthday. My grandmother said she sounded exited and that she was rushing somewhere, but she didn't tell er anything.
My mom was very trustful person, extremely friendly, woman with a BIG heart, everyone knew this, and everyone always was trying to worn her, which she didn't like, cos she was always sure that she knows what she's doing. I guess that's why she didn't tell anyone about anything, apart from her childhood friend, who doesn't know much ether.
There is quiet a few bits and bobs that might help me with her search, but I just don't know yet how to use them, and I guess it would of been easier for me if I could come to New York, but obviously with this whole current situation in the world it's a bit tricky.
I know that she attended some class to learn English, and that she did meet a lot of friends there, who I believe could possibly be the ones who promised her something. I even feel that there could be something to do with religious sects.
I also have a person in mind, who I think knows something. I know the name, but can't find his number, because I can get it while being out of USA.
My mom couldn't wait until we all can come over, and she was trying so hard to make sure that we have all we need once we come. I have all her letters that she's sent to my dad. So much love, and so much hope for better future.
I know this sounds silly, but I still have so much hope that she's alive and that I will find her one day. I will never stop waiting or searching for her.