I simply can't understand why people have a hard time "wrapping their heads around the fact that a parent or parents could do to their own child what was done to JBR". You use the term "statistics", but to put it a bit differently: We read/hear about people every day who do that and more.
What is frustrating to me is that people are so, incredibly, shallow, that they take everything at face value: The Ramseys....what? Dress well? Have money? Go to church? Are good at business? Have friends the same?
I look at the Ramseys, and sans any knowledge of JBR being murdered, I see nothing but shallowness, topped off by an alarming lack of concern for the safety of their children, but even moreso by a shocking willingness to destroy them, at least JBR. How does a "mother", or whatever passes for one, dress up her precious, innocent child as a tart, overtly sexualizing her? Teaching her to show herself -her body- off to strangers?
These same parents to two children open their home to complete strangers to show it off. (Christmas tours.) Wow. Talk about inviting predators into your home.
How does one consider these to be good people? It boggles my mind. I see Patsy, especially, as an utter narcissist, who would likely sell her child to the highest bidder and, frankly, am not entirely sure that that isn't exactly what happened here. She certainly wasn't about protecting innocence. Keeping her safe. Teaching her character rather than teaching her to be obsessed with her looks, etc. I see JBR and I see child abuse all over the place. By her own parents.