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I agree that IS a lot of booze. But the report covers the bar-hopping RS did from 4:30-10:30-- a 6 hour period. And he was a big person and a man besides (biological effects not cultural--alcohol dehydrogenase, fat, etc different from women.)a margarita, two whiskey and Coke drinks, one rum and Coke and two 5% alcoholic seltzer beverages, another rum and coke
and there may have been more at other bars or in a hotel room ...
that's a lot of booze IMO
I agree that IS a lot of booze. But the report covers the bar-hopping RS did from 4:30-10:30-- a 6 hour period. And he was a big person and a man besides (biological effects not cultural--alcohol dehydrogenase, fat, etc different from women.)
The question wasn't did he choose to drink too much (including I expect in the hotel room.) I think investigators do know which bars he went to and I think it's obvious he did drink too much (although I wouldn't count on the autopsy BAL of .228 being 100% accurate after 2 weeks in the water.) BAL also continues to rise after drinking stops.
But there's no evidence he was "over-served" at any bar because he wasn't exhibiting signs of being too intoxicated until he started slurring his words at Luke's & got booted. Even his stepfather and mother said he didn't sound intoxicated when face-timing mom at around 7:30-8. That was slightly more than halfway through his bar-hopping. And according to the published report, by then he'd had 5-6 drinks plus whatever unknown quantity he had at the hotel. And he sounded fine to family. So how could wait staff know he wasn't?
MOO
IMO the family (and some others here) believe that it wasn’t a tragic accident and foul play must’ve been involved. I do feel for them but to me it seems they just can’t accept that Riley was technically at fault for his own death. He over drank and couldn’t make it to a safe place to sleep it off. It is tragic and sad but there’s been no evidence that anyone else was involved. I wish them peace.Why are people still talking about this?
Men go out and drink all the time all over the world and end up dead in the water. My brother's best friend was one of those.
What's the difference here?
Serious question.
IMO the family (and some others here) believe that it wasn’t a tragic accident and foul play must’ve been involved. I do feel for them but to me it seems they just can’t accept that Riley was technically at fault for his own death. He over drank and couldn’t make it to a safe place to sleep it off. It is tragic and sad but there’s been no evidence that anyone else was involved. I wish them peace.
I believe it was an accident. There just hasn’t been any evidence of foul play. Video and witness interviews seem to back this up.
and the frat brothers did nothing wrong IMO
Let a uber blotto brother make his way to the hotel on his own. MOO Its not "wrong" per se, but the "brothers" were not as bonded as I would expect.
Let a uber blotto brother make his way to the hotel on his own. MOO Its not "wrong" per se, but the "brothers" were not as bonded as I would expect.
The fraternity is evidently a business fraternity, not a social fraternity per se. Rather, the fraternity in question is open to anyone with a business major (and perhaps has a few other nominal requirements).Let a uber blotto brother make his way to the hotel on his own. MOO Its not "wrong" per se, but the "brothers" were not as bonded as I would expect.
Delta Chi is 100% a social fraternity. At my university they were suspended a few years ago for hazing pledges.The fraternity is evidently a business fraternity, not a social fraternity per se. Rather, the fraternity in question is open to anyone with a business major (and perhaps has a few other nominal requirements).
This is in contrast to a fraternity based on selected friendships that are then reinforced by a bonding pledge process.
In the end, I think the fraternity members arrived in Nashville with a mix of agendas:
- I am going mainly to see something new and I have never been to Nashville. I wont be doing the "bar crawl" and am only distantly associated with the members interested in it.
- I am going to be doing a light "bar crawl" that is mainly centered on a nice dinner out and listening to a band. Though we may see the bar crawlers "in action", we are not directly participating in it.
- I am doing the bar crawl and.... the pre crawl get together in the hotel room. When do we start, I can go all night.
The end result, could of been a social dynamic where though fraternity brothers were never going to allow another member to get in immediate danger, some felt less responsibility towards members engaging in activities that they, themselves, had not "signed up for".
Thanks for the needed correction. I thought that RS had gone with an academic / major fraternity. Sigma Chi was on my campus as well- though I cant remember what kind of reputation they had.Delta Chi is 100% a social fraternity. At my university they were suspended a few years ago for hazing pledges.