But Terri isn't charged with anything, yet people just think she should allow someone to accuse her in a civil trial and believe she should have nothing to fear if she's innocent.
It's the principle of the thing. IMO everybody should have the right to file for a restraining order if they feel threatened by their spouse since the law has given peope that right. IMO if the civil RO cases were meant to be dependent of criminal charges being filed and the person being convicted there would be no such thing as a civil RO in the law, the RO would follow the criminal conviction if any.
What if it was just some random incognito people, not well known persons who we have formed various emotional responses for and against? What if it was a random wife saying she's being threatened by her husband, would we say that she has to wait for the courts to convict her husband for something before she can file a suit to try and protect herself and her minor children? I know I wouldn't, I'd say go for it, the sooner the better. It can be too late for her and her children by the time the criminal case, if any, is resolved, if the threat she feels is real.
If every wife battered or threatened by her spouse/ex etc. has the right to file for a RO for her and her children's protection without waiting for the courts to convict her husband IMO we can't deny that right from Kaine if he considers himself a threatened spouse just because we want Terri to come out of this smelling like roses.
It's not that she should have nothing to fear if she's innocent. Everybody has something to fear if they get lawsuits filed against them. But IMO it's not a constitutional right for Terri or anyone to have nothing to fear in court. If it was there would be no lawsuits at all because what would be the point?
I can't fully articulate how wrong that notion is.
Terri has the Constitution behind her on this: She has the right to face her accusers and she has the right to not have to be compelled to say something which might incriminate her.
I'm not getting the problem. I thought she has the right to face the accusers, who are Kaine or his attorney in the civil case, if she wants to, and she also has the right not to speak in the civil case, if she wants to.
Not because she's done anything; she has the presumption of innocence. But Kaine Horman's attorney is trying to force Terri to prove she's innocent without ever having been charged with anything just so her client can get his divorce.
IMO he doesn't really need to prove she's guilty of anything and she doesn't need to prove that she's innocent of anything in order for them to get the divorce. I have learned here that Oregon is a no fault divorce state, so it's not necessary for anybody to be the guilty or innocent party, and she already agreed not to contest the divorce so it should be a done deal without any proving or counterproving necessary. There's just the matter of timing to be resolved.
Oh, and get answers he rightfully wants. But he can't just tear down the Constitution to get them and people shouldn't advocate for it to happen.
IMO if he has attempted to tear down the Constitution he will get his butt soundly thrashed by Houze and Bunch for it but so far they have not argued that any of Rackner's petitions are unconstitutional IIRC. It would surely be the quickest way to throw Kaine out of court in shame. Since we have heard so much of Houze's reputation I'm sure he'd be on top of this and Terri has another lawyer to assist her as well if Houze doesn't but neither of them have said that Kaine has torn down the Constitution. It leads me to suppose that Kaine is probably well within his legal rights to file for a divorce whenever he wants to, to file for a restraining order whenever he feels threatened, and to file for contempt of court whenever the court's orders have been disregarded.
Because if it happens to you, who is going to be in your corner? I will be, but you see how many times I'm screamed down. It isn't about protecting Terri; it's about protecting the rights of every citizen to not be manipulated into testimony about something with which you have not been charged.
Is there really a right not to be manipulated? You can't be forced to testify, you can plead the fifth. But IMO there is no corresponding obligation for others to avoid trying to tempt you to testify, putting you in situations in which you might like to plead the fifth.
If it was anybody else but Kaine and Terri and the divorce petitioner felt that the respondent had done some awful thing in their marriage and cited it in their petition we wouldn't be talking Constitution at all, IMO. It would be just par for the course. Every day, family courts hear stories about awful, potentially criminal things that the other spouse allegedly has done although he/she hasn't been charged let alone convicted for them and you don't often see the divorce cases thrown out of court on the basis that they're unconstitutional and trample the parties rights not to incriminate themselves. The judge considers the merits of the arguments on each side and rules in favor of one or the other or splits it in the middle.
If it ever happens to me that I get suspected of murderous plans against my husband or my children I fully expect for my husband to sue the heck out of me. I do not expect him to kindly sit back and stay married to me, letting me have access to our precious children and risk their lives, quoting as the reason his desire to spare me from situations in which my testimony might be incriminating. I expect that he would always put the safety of the children first because he's that kind of guy. If it ever looks like I might have hurt them he'll darn well try to make sure I'll never get near any of them again.
And I think it would be his right to do so. If he files for something unreasonable or illegal hopefully I'll have a good attorney.